I know your hurting right now so my advice will be kept soft but still direct.
I've been in his shoes before. He's a acting like that because he really does not want to be with you. Does he love you? in a way, yes. Is he "In love" with you? probably not so much anymore.
I'm sorry. But you need to hear this, if you want a good future.
Leave him NOW !
Trust me on this. When I did that to my girlfriend, it was because I though I could be happier with someone else, that's why I criticized her so much, she was a good women but nothing she did was "good enough" for me, that was because I no longer wanted to be with her.
The reason he is still around is because he does actually care about your feelings deep down, and doesn't want to hurt you--but I guarantee you that internally he is daily breaking up with you, he's just not man enough to go through with it in reality.
I've grown up a lot since I acted like this, so I hope my experience helps you.
Now here is the kicker...If you want to keep him, you can because he most likely won't initiate the break up. But get this, VERY IMPORTANT- if you stay, he will continue to disrespect you, lower your self esteem, break you down mentally, physically, and spiritually, and look for other women, if he hasn't already.
He's not just mad, he has disconnected with with relationship. What women fail to realize is that when men do this, it is near impossible to bring us back. Cut him loose if you want to save yourself. I can not stress that enough!
Because I was like your boyfriend and couldn't pull the trigger, I pushed and pushed my girlfriend until SHE broke up with me. That way, I didn't have hurting her on my conscious, because she made the choice. (sorry, but the truth) Did I still care about her? Yes, but that is not enough for a healthy relationship.
I don't thinks she's dating at the moment, but still, she is so much better off after leaving me.
You will also be so much better off after leaving him. I promise you that:)
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I don't think he actually care,because he thinks your bluffing about leaven him.
Regardless of what the fight was about, he shouldn't act that way it's an asshole move.
I say get yourself together and show him you expect nothing but respect.If he's acting like that now think how much worse it could be down the line.
I'm sorry hun but I have to tell you...I don't think he wants to be in the relationship any more but doesn't want to be the "bad guy" by breaking up with you.Unless,he's been that way all three years? I think he wants out...
when someone shows you there true self believe it.. he's only wanting to make him self feel good.. it means he never cared in the frist place... there will be someone else who'll love everything about you good and bad
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