My girlfriend stopped liking me and we broke up?

[SWaldron]

My girlfriend whom I really liked so so so so so much stopped liking me, we broke up last night because I questioned what was wrong as I could sense something wasn't right with her. She then explained that for awhile she was "trying" to like me. Before this complication she also said that she thought she wanted a relationship with me but it went away. This is really hard for me as I liked her SO much. She wants to remain friends and hang out and see if anything picks up (see if she likes me again) and I don't know what to do. I really like this girl but I don't want to be hurt. We are still going to this party together that we were invited to before we broke up. She still wants to go as Cher and ill go as Sunny. What do you ladies think is happening? She knows I still have incredibly strong feelings about her. I'm a sensitive guy, and I need help/ advice. I'm confused and lost. I actually can't even eat a thing I'm so upset. You know the feeling. Anything helps ladies, thank you so much and I apologize for the lengthy post

[MyNameIsJonas]

Hey I know that you asked for a ladies advice, but as a man I am better suited to help you with this problem. STOP BEING A PUSSY.

You needed to hear that. I am helping you. Now I'm going to advise you and you can take it or leave it. I want you to know that I do know what I'm talking about, And it would serve me no purpose to steer your wrong or be writing this to you. Because that would be a waste of my time.

You need to stop being Mr. sensitive around this girl. She wants a Man, not a girlfriend. You can see this woman slipping away from you, and as you try to tighten your grasp you will lose. This girl is going to put you in the friend zone if you continue to pester her with "how you feel about the situation" and "how she is hurting you" You need to act like a Man. When she starts to pull away in any way you should take that as disrespect and take two steps back away from her.

I would still go to this party. But I would call her and tell her that you don't want to attend the party with her, although you will still be going. And don't wear the god damn sunny and char costume. Did they end up together friend? no they did not. Wear something original. Something that expresses you as a man. Go to this party with some of your friends or better yet another girl that you have just met. Do not give this girl any attention at the party if she does decide to attend after you have said you are not going with her. All you will say is "hey what's up" in a dismissive manor. Your interest is else where. You will have fun at this gathering without her. Let her know you are a Man and do not need anyone in your life to make you happy. All you need is you. The point her is not to be bitter to this woman, but to show her that you are fine without her. Just like she is trying to show you she is fine without you.

[conscience]

Or he could let her go and move on...Sucks yeah, but women like them who want a MAN really won't want to stick around with the nice guys. I'm just saying this from my view but it is very hard for us sensitive pussies to change into a MAN because it just isn't our style. I know I'm a sensitive person but I can't help it, that's just how I am and I find it extremely hard to change for women who want the current societal standard of a man.

[MyNameIsJonas]

If you are born male then you are a man. I truly do not understand certain behavior that is counter productive to getting what you want out of life. Did I say a man was not sensitive? He is sensitive and selective of what woman get to see that side of him, because he values himself, his feelings and opinions. The fact that this man has shown this girl his feelings and she has shunned him is a sign of disrespect. He needs to show her that her behavior is not tolerate of his type of woman.

[SWaldron]

ur right mate, this is how I got her in the first place. Its good critisism and you just put me back to my roots of how I managed to get this girl in the first place. I knew that I let down my guard. I'm still sensitive but I played the field with her really smart before she completely fell for me. There is that saying...those who don't need a chick have a chick. Thanks brotha I appreciate your harsh response helps me get back to me

[MyNameIsJonas]

Your welcome it was only to help you. You have my respect and good luck to you.

[SWaldron]

hey again, party went better than ever, I got my emotions together, gathered up the baggage and tossed it out. When I saw her at the party I payed little attention to her, made myself busy and unavailable, totally worked. Everybody wants what they can't have...kept that in mind and used it on her. She is now texting me, calling...pretty much did everything you said and more from some research and it all worked

[MyNameIsJonas]

Hey I'm proud of you. Good job. You got back to being your own man and she comes back. typical logic of most females.

[defiantly_beautiful]

I agree with Jonas.

I broke up with my boyfriend because he had turned into a softy, at first I was like he's a man you know, and then every joke I made(I'm extremely sarcastic) he would take it really personally and get upset about everything.

Which made me worry that when we broke up he was going to be really clingy and emotional and stuff. He fortunately took it fairly well and we were pretty good friends for a while. But at least she broke up with you instead of staying with you and lying about the whole relationship because that would make you feel so much worse.

[elizabeth24]

Im really sorry that happened to you. Once you break up its hard to find feelings for someone again I did that with my ex Kyle for 7 months. Trying to get back with him, he flirted and wanted to hang out but just ended up huting me to know that we aren't together. I don't want you to go after a girl that your you in that way. Just let go its gonna be hard though