Ah well people sometimes form bonds with somebody so even though he split up from you there can be sometimes residue of that bond which can then turn back into attraction or it could be because he's having a nostalgic phase were you miss companionship or friendship with a particular individual. I feel like he may be torn with his feelings which is why he asked about your relationship status but didn't go full way as he's seeing another girl but may still like you. Personally only if it continues for a long period I think maybe you should ask what's bothering him as he may want to get certain things off his chest. But if he doesn't constantly ask about you it may have just been a phase that he went through were he was having self doubts! Hope this helps!
u It could be any one of these:
1. He wants to know if you are available because he wants to reconcile.
2. He wants to goat over the fact that he has moved on and you haven't.
3. Maybe he broke up because of some flaw he perceived in you and he wants to confirm that no other guy had found you to be desirable.
4. Maybe he is genuinely concerned about you and wants to know that you are doing well.
5. Maybe he is feeling guilty about the breakup and will feel better if he knows you have resumed dating.
I bet he's not happy with his new girl and realized what he is missing...
I had the same thing happen to me and fell for the trap but realized it wasn't worth it very quickly..
At best he wants an ego boost from the thought of you miserable without him. At worst he wants to use you... you don't need that type of energy.. block him and move on ok? In cases like this, exes cannot be friends... some things must be left in the past.. anyway, a friendship with an ex feels super cringey. I promise 😂❤
there could be several reasons he is doing this to you ! maybe he realizes that he made a mistake with you and wants you back ! he wants to keep an eye on you so he can show you how your break up has lead him to ( in his opinion ) a better woman and so forth ! when you act like you are fine with the break up then that makes it worse on him and his ego for you should want him back because he feels that he is really great ! thanks
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You should just tell him that it's none of his business. He's probably still a bit interested in you and wants to know if you're single. Things might not have worked out as well as he thought they would with the new person. But you shouldn't allow yourself to be anyone's backup. If he really cared about you, he shouldn't have left you in the first place.
He broke up with you, but he doesn't wish you any ill. That's kind of how I am with my exes. The break ups were horribly painful. In the more recent one, I ultimately decided to leave when she tried to relegate me to only being a friend. Despite all of the pain she caused me; I don't wish her any ill. I genuinely want her to be happy and succeed in life. Ironically, even though I only wish her the best, I get the distinct impression that she failed out of grad school because of our break up. I tried to reach out to her and see how she was doing, but I was met with complete silence. When I asked her friend if she could let me know how my ex was, the friend didn't answer me, but simply asked if my ex and I had dated (which is significant because my ex got angry at me for telling my closer friends that we were talking. It sounds like she was telling people that we were romantic).
Sounds like a dickhead, who gets with a new girl, then decides a few weeks/months into that relationship, that he wants to be friends with his ex? Surely they should still be in their "honeymoon" period, were being friends with his ex is the last thing on his mind? Maybe if he focused his energies more into his current relationships rather than his previous ones, he wouldn't have so many ex's!..
I don't think none of us own an explanation to our ex's to tell them
whose new partner or romance partner we are talking to that is our
business what our relationship status is, sure he misses your friendship
it's your business if any new guys talk to you.
Maybe whomever he dumped you for left him and he realizes the grass wasn't greener on the other side.
Or maybe she dumped him and he is lonely. Saying he wants to be friends sounds like he needs someone to talk to and you are his comfort zone. Which wouldn't be a bad thing.
He wants to fate you again. Anything else about being friends is a lie. He wants to know where he stacks up against other guys. Time to just cut the cord with that ex.
It seems pretty common for the dumper to attempt to crawl back after a certain amount of time, typically after their next relationship prospect fails. He’s probably trying to fit himself back into your life for an opportunity to rekindle your relationship. I would suggest not entertaining his messages if you’re not interested.
He’s curious and wants to test the waters before saying anything compromising. He’s also regretting his choice to leave you right about know, because it took him 4 months to process the break up. The ugly truth is that no matter if you’re the dumper or the dumped you’re still going to mourn the relationship. The process is just different for some people.
Because his relationship is souring and he’s wondering if he can crawl back to you telling you everything you want to hear so he can use you as a backup till he finds someone else. Why are you communicating with him at all?
I swear the exact same thing happened to me. My ex texts me after 6 months, saying "I miss you a lot".
I'm like what's the point now. You're the one who left me on your own accord.
To me it feels like she regrets leaving and now she's feeling empty and missing the moments. It's probably the same with your guys as well.
I could only speculate, and others have already given a pretty exhaustive list of possibilities.
What I can say is that I know from personal experience that it is possible to care deeply for someone but find it impossible to remain in a relationship.
I broke up with a fabulous woman, and regret it daily (whilst knowing it was the right choice).
What friendship? He’s an ex, there can’t be any friendship. Block him and don’t respond. No reason to care why he contacted you because he isn’t going to bring any value to your life now or in the future.
My ex called me last night at 3:57am
Ex's want to still be part of our lives once they realize we only made their lives better
He wanted to make sure if he were to try and go back to you, you weren't tainted by other men
He's a retard. He loves to juggle with girls and can't stand to be bored. So that's why he wants to come back to you.
You should have told him it is none of his business. But if he really wants to know, tell him that many guys have asked you out and you are confused as to whom to choose.
Move on. Dont let him create drama. He probably realized he made a mistake or he wants to get two birds with one stone. Regardless, he's the one who broke it off. Go date other guys. Perhaps, you will meet the one who truly wants to be with you.
⚫Breaking up with my girl, and after 4 months I call her asking, if she has found someone or talking to someone.
That will in most cases be my troll, wanting to laugh at her not moving on most probably.
So if he truly missed you as friends rather than lovers, then it is lije he was only after your p🐹y.
Just tell him that you guys cannot get back together as lovers.
BT it is never bad to be friends with an ex.
Yeah tell him me and a bunch of guys have been talking to you and you can't decide which one to pick. You are thinking of just dating all of us. 😂😂😂 kidding aside he probably wants to know if you are still hurt.
Because he wants to get back into your panties or his relationship isn't going the way he thought it was so he wants to go back to you. Either way I don't think you should respond to him or do anything with him, ignore him.
A mans ego (whether he wants you for himself or not) will be greatly affected when another man enters your atmosphere.
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