Guys, Why is my ex boyfriend the last person to watch my Instagram stories?

[Anonymous]

So I know this might sound like a petty question, but I'm genuinely wondering. He (23) broke up with me (21) about two months ago and well, the least I can say is that it ended... really sadly. We both cried, he probably did even more than I did and had those guilty eyes for having hurt me. We've had 0 contact since then but we still somehow follow each other on social media. To this day, I still don't have the strength to remove him myself. Tbh, I don't know why we still follow each other and although it sounds like I'm asking that he does it first, I know that would hurt me? Anyway, by "last person", I meant that he intentionally watches my stories last, like right before they disappear. I'm not even very active on social media, I would post like twice a month so I don't think I'm bombarding his feed with my presence or something. Still can't figure out whether I've been muted or not, but either he a) did not mute me and chooses to watch them last; but for what reason? b) did mute me and still goes out of his way to look up for my profile and actually watch; but why muting me in the first place instead of unfollowing me? I posted last night and my story's still up. He didn't view it, and I have no idea if he will do the same thing again. It's just so random.

[btbc92]

Its very simple:

Besides what the other user said. Your ex wants to know if youe seeing other men, taking interest in otgee men or men desire looking at you.

I'm not much for that social media nonsense, and one thing I do know for sure, a lot of people these days are just flat-out crazy. It's something a lot crazier since I was last more active on social media but that was back in high school as well as my younger 20s. Hard to believe I can actually say that now. But one thing that I'm wearing especially but with other people's experiences regarding this craziness oh, many people do it simply because they won't steps again. Mind you, be it if you are a virgin, haven't been sexually active for the person, or not, he here is that many people are seeking that again. And if you didn't get any sex from you, he's definitely trying to see if you're going to be getting that from somebody else. Once the man knows that you're active with other man, none of the 10 times they stop blocking and attaching. I cannot necessarily tell you was from a jealousy perspective or not, but if you two are not friends, that's exactly what it is. The question isn't that you got to really ask yourself why is it that you do not have the strength to actually have him blocked and not be in your life anymore you got to remember that you're the one that's choosing to hold that kind of person in your life, when you need to be moving on. Because of none of you are able to probably move on, and you get back together again, what you going to really get back together for? Because you're feeling still free each other? You got to think about the logical and rational Reason Not only did you got together, but why did you break up with each other. That's something to seriously think about and when you really think about it, a lot of people do not get into relationships for the right reason damn it because not all about feeling the hormones and all this other stuff you try to make it. It's something is very serious. So if you know that there's nothing left for you to be having for a stable relationship, you need to just simply pray about it, ask God to help you with it, forgiveness of anything if you done something you shouldn't do, and you have to move on. You got to give yourself time to grieve, and you will not be able to do that if you constantly have this person in the picture.

Because as long as you don't have him blocked, you going to try to keep going back and thinking about him and that's the wrong thing you should be doing. Any pictures, and the video, and comic, anything that has to do with him needs not to be in your life anymore. He needs to go find someone else if he's looking for that or take time off and say I'm going to figure himself out, and you should do the same.

[Anadrisel]

Because he wants to know about you, but he doesn't want you to know that seeing your stories. That is why it is expected right at the end so that you may not have time to see it

[Iron_Man]

Maybe he’s not that interested but anyway he watches them

[KrakenAttackin]

Stop being an attention whore, just stop.

[In_Trance]

Because you didn't block him