I wanna break up with my girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

So i want to breakup with my girlfriend, our relationships been very dry too the fact of no communication even 0 texts in the last 2 weeks, thats one reason the other reason is she was very toxic too my co workers ( her co workers aswell ) and ended up making them very sad they lost a friend so she ended up leaving the company but after a week she came back and kind of demanded she got her position instantly which seems ridicilous too me, she's very disrespectful too everyone. I don't know what too say more my friend is a therapist tried to talk with her but she's so stubborn n arrogant ended up ignoring the therapist. i want too break up but i also dont wanna create drama, cuz she can easily turn this and tell her friends i was an issue, i just dont know how to handle this im being overwhelmed with toughts / how to break up as painless as possible. sincerely Ross

[KitKnickKat]

I’m sorry you’re going through this, it doesn’t sound like an easy situation. She must not be willing to accept how she’s making others feel which is unfortunate. But you gotta leave her if she’s bringing you down like that. Maybe she will learn how to be a better person down the line but you don’t want to wait around to find out that possibility.
If she is the type of person to cause drama, then maybe break it to her kindly in public at a coffee shop or something. That way she most likely won’t make as much of a scene. But if she’s going to tell her friends, there’s nothing you can really do about that except just ignore them.
She sounds really immature…

[Ghen30]

By now, she's probably already told her friends about you. You only have one life. If she's bringing you down, break up with her. End it. If she tries to stir up trouble, threaten her with the police. It's the only way, otherwise you will suffer even longer and miss your chances with someone else who would treat you much better.

[one1wild00]

Sounds like you know what you have to do. because of the volatility and drama and wanting g to keep that to a minimum If I was you I'd start distancing to begin with slipping away a little at a time so after awhile your impact on her life is so small when you do finally tell her your breaking off it won't be as big an impact on her hence hopefully less explosion.

[Guy13]

Later…it’s not working out. We’re not compatible

[TrillXHippy]

So do it