I don’t know what to do how do I deal with this?

[Anonymous]

So my long distance girlfriend broke up with me because she said she needed to focus on school and dating me was a distraction and she also said that maybe we will date in the future cause people sometimes get back into each other’s
life and that stuck with me but now I tried being friends with her and tried to get over her but it didn’t work I told her after a month of trying to be friends with her that I still like her and that when we talk it still feels like how we used to talk when we dated and now she said it’s best if we’re not friends with me and that kinda sucks tbh because I do care for her a lot but even if we’re not dating I’m getting jealous of stuff that’s happening and I fucking hate it I just want to be over her because she really broke me and I think I know that there’s no possible way for us to be together anymore and not even be friends with her because I really screwed up by telling her I still liked her and now people I used to play video games with play with her now because they’ve always liked her more and I’m pretty sure she told them everything because my friend who plays with both me and her but now separately said that they said” you’re still playing with him?” And he said it didn’t sound like she was disgusted but it did at the same time. Sorry for the rant I’m just so mad at myself and pissed off about still liking her and getting jealous over shit and I want to get over her because it’s already been 2 months but I really don’t know how to

[DiegoO]

If it helps you, I was also in a LDR, for 3 years. LDR are tough. After the breakup is natural to wanna have some contact or build a friendship. It's an appealing desire, but you can't be a friend with someone you have romantic feelings for. Be real. Learn to be honest with yourself. Do you really want to be her friend? After being her friend, what chance will you have to be more than her friend? Why do you still want to be more than her friend, after the relationship failed? You need to seriously ask yourself those questions. I get you, I also wanted to be a friend to my ex. For her it was everything or nothing. For me it was: if it didn't work, why just not have a friendship? But it takes two to have a friendship and I am not gonna implore her to be my friend. Gotta have self respect.

[CallmeTheKnight]

No matter the excuse or reason, it was not going to work out anyway otherwise she'll still be your girlfriend. This is a good thing in itself, so take the positive from this negative

[HelloSofi97]

Keep it moving and let go of any hope you may have of getting back with her. She isn't worth it because by allowing you to be around after her breaking up with you... she's knowingly stringing you along wasting your time and preventing you from moving on or potentially meeting someone else that will WANT to be with you.

[DiegoO]

"she's knowingly stringing you along wasting your time and preventing you from moving on or potentially meeting someone else that will WANT to be with you".

The guy has to heal. He shouldn't even thinking on jumping on to another relationship.