When a guy breaks up with u why is he so horrible to you?

[Anonymous]

Two years together and breaks up with me without the words just stopped texting me and seeing me.
As much as I begged for him and tried.
9 months gone by now.
I’ve been used by him and made a fool out of all my own fault as I let him.
But why be so nasty and careless to someone like why bother doing it to them if it’s over it’s over.
Always texted me randomly aswell when I went no contact.

[boggboss]

So he broke up without giving u a reason

[boggboss]

So wait u would blow up on him in a toxic way then acted surprised when he ended it

[Asker]

When I was being cheated on yeah I would

[boggboss]

U never said he cheated u said u accused him that means u thought he was cheating did u have proof

[Asker]

Yeah that’s what he called it as one of the reasons. I have photo evidence of everything

[boggboss]

So if he was cheating on you why didn't u end things why are u upset a cheating partner left you are your standerds that low hun u need to move on

[Asker]

Because I believe he didn’t go through with it despite texting or maybe nudes or w*nking to each other I just I don't know why I just felt It was my fault if I didn’t care so much or give out so much about girls and worry maybe he wouldn’t I don't know I just feel like I don't know what I did wrong to be treated this way and for him not to love me i tried so hard and always cared for him I just feel so ugly

[boggboss]

You simply wanted him a way he didn't want you no way of forcing that would make it work he cheated for fuck sake why would u want the love of a guy that cheated

[Asker]

But he used to be obsessed with me and love and care about me so much and then it’s like he just changed like why couldn’t he just break up with me if he didn’t want me give me clarity instead of pushing me so far away doing horrible things and making me feel so small

[boggboss]

Because he only did stuff on his terms

[Asker]

But he wasn’t like that before

[boggboss]

No u just didn't know him before u thought u knew him

[Asker]

Maybe so

[boggboss]

Its pretty much the only option

[KrakenAttackin]

What did you do to cause him to dump you?

[Asker]

Because I always accused him and fought with him but I wasn’t fighting I was saying how I felt constantly n also I might of used to always say I’d leave when I knew I wouldn’t just so he cop on but yeah