Do you Have FIFTY and More Reasons WHY you Left an EX?

[Paris13]

***Name a FEW. xx

Yes, Paris!

Nothing Really, Paris!

Half and Half, Paris!

Look down Here, Paris!

[AsaKyo]

Well, he left me four times because he "overreacted" and "Was unsure of what he wanted" which is bullshit, I know lmao. Plus y'know, we were young teenagers at the time and I still had faith in him and stupidly took him back every time.

He never changed, and it even got worse tbh with the drugs and the drinking that his friends "encouraged" him to do. And when I was looking out for him and had his best interest, it was always kinda like, "Stfu Asa, you annoying bitch, you dunno what's good for meee". So I just let him do whatever, I mean I couldn't stop him.

Then he left for the last time, I was sad and kind of expected to happen, though. I guess what really hurt is that it was actually over that time and I had grown so used to him being around all the time. He wasn't always this bad, but I think the worst was when he started doing the drugs and the drinking our Junior year.

I talked to him for a little bit a couple months ago after he finally apologized about everything and sadly he's still addicted to drugs and alcohol while all his ex-friends kind of ditched him and moved on and stopped doing that. So he's stuck with an addiction he can't or either doesn't wanna shake off. His dad is also literally no help at all being a 50 year old man with a drug addiction lmao..

I honestly just feel bad for him. His upbringing was pretty shit, mom left him and forgot about him, dad is a junkie, no good group of friends. I was the only "positive" thing in his life and I guess he didn't know how to handle it.

Despite how "hard" his life has been, that still doesn't excuse what he did to me and put me through. He could have handled that differently. Instead of marching into the same direction his dad was going, he could have went down a more positive route. With the way he's going, he's gonna end up 50, single and with a drug addiction lmao.. I just hope he doesn't kill himself on any of that stuff.

I mean, my mom's life is shit and instead of taking to steps to be "just like her", I'm trying to avoid the things my mom did wrong so that I can lead a life with a better outcome. Same with my grandmother. And I do not want to be an alcoholic and a no good piece of shit like my dad and try to avoid doing things my dad would do. That's how it's supposed to be and I hate that not everyone who has had crappy parents strives to be the opposite of what their parents were.

Sorry, this was long lmao

[Paris13]

I am So very Sory this happened to you. Thanks for sharing. You are Lucky though to have Mom. My Mom died of cancer a few Years ago. Be here for Each other. xx

[AsaKyo]

Aw, I'm very sorry for your loss. Hope you'll be okay. <3 <3

[Paris13]

lol H eis Still Trying to Get us Back as One, But I love my Freedom. I had International Flowers for his Mum and The Deceased Queen, Delivered a few Days ago. lol!!! xx

[BlurryHaze]

Absolutely agree especially on the last part you said, even worse where some acknowledge what their parents did was bad, yet do exactly what they did anyway.
I'm sorry you had to go through all that with him, and hope you're doing okay!

[Account]

Yes.

I said blue , he understood red. I said red, he understood blue and vice versa.

I can give you multiple reasons, I can even name you 50, however, they all lead to two:

We were not compatible and my trust issues I carry along with me put a wall between us.

[Paris13]

THank YOU, @Account You deserve my MHO ON this One, hun. Hugggggggggs. xxoo

[Account]

Thank you so so much! *hugs*

[hIopinionated_]

This literally explains my and my ex’s relationship. I probably made a huge mistake staying friends with him all these years though. .

[Account]

Why do you think you made a mistake staying friends with him @hlopinionated_

[hIopinionated_]

@Account Today I realized I think I may be hurting him. Interestingly enough I made this observation based on recent experience with another guy and the fact that I haven’t considered this before makes me a bad friend and person even. I just feel he deserves better

[nomandik]

Well to start my ex-girlfriend she was a schizophrenia which I didn't hold against her she had bipolar which I did not hold against her she had a really nice Dad that died I don't feel that against her either but when it comes to her mom she's the biggest B. You ever met
I kept on telling her you got to tell her to start accepting me or I'm leaving you well about 3 years later I just got so sick and tired of it I said forget this s*** I'm over it so I left her then two months later her mom dies over overdose I was thinking to myself what the hell first her dad dies of her brain aneurysm then her mom dies because she was on a fentanyl patch and drinking alcohol on top of it and had a massive heart attack

[Paris13]

So Sad Indeed. xx

[clampfan101]

We’re not together because she’s already in Heaven… 😭

[BlurryHaze]

My condolences Sir. It's a tough situation to process, and I hope all is well with you.

[Paris13]

@BlurryHaze Ohh So Sorry, @clampfan101 xx

[clampfan101]

I’m ready to move on, but I desperately miss the feeling of being in a relationship and seem to have no options for finding someone new.

[Paris13]

@clampfan101 She is NOT here yet. xx

[clampfan101]

And not knowing when she will be is killing me. Plus absolutely everything I want to do to move forward in life has been out of my reach for over 10 years, and I’m afraid it’s going to make me look pathetic.

[BlurryHaze]

@clampfan101 I miss that feeling of a relationship too brother. Also if I may ask, what is it you want to do to move on but haven't been able to do?

[clampfan101]

@BlurryHaze Learn how to drive. Get a decent job. Not live with my parents.
My dad,(the only one in the house who can drive), is busy almost 24/7, and can’t help me with anything despite wanting to.

[BlurryHaze]

And for all those things, why are they out of your reach and for so long too?

[clampfan101]

@BlurryHaze First epilepsy control taking 10 years, and now just my infinitely busy dad “getting around to it”.

[Paris13]

@clampfan101 Huggggggs, sweetheart. xxoo

[BlurryHaze]

I see, and what is it that you want your dad to do but is too busy for?

[clampfan101]

@BlurryHaze Want I’d want seems pretty self explanatory, but none of it is possible right now.

[Pinay_ako]

• Cheating
• Abusive
• Narcissistic
• Toxic relationship
• Sexless
• Lazy
• Unhygienic
• No time for me

[Paris13]

@Pinay_ako You deserve Better. xx

[Pinay_ako]

You too love

[Paris13]

lol He still Thinks He is The One. lolxx

[OlderAndWiser]

After two years of dating, I loved her and she liked me.

[RandomGuy1032]

Are u single

[OlderAndWiser]

@RandomGuy1032 I am divorced. In December 2020, I started dating my current girlfriend and we have been living together since July, 2021. I am very loyal and faithful (and she is, too.)

[EmyyWolf]

Full of bad habits. Smoking. Drinking. Going Out.

Desirable and wanted by all ladies. Women threw themselves at him.

Has ZERO self control and is impulsive. Did everything careless and without thinking.

Had no remorse. Feels no guilt.

Will tell you that men need more variety. All whilst not even making you scream in bed. 🤡

Entitled

Narcissistic

FULL OF HIMSELF

Already had children with an ex. And I was childless.

Boasted about how many Exes he’s had.

Was a daredevil.

Temper-mental

Easily Angered

Had Charges For Beating Up his EXs boyfriend

Ladies. Don’t be with a man who already had babies. Because he will lack money. Also, don’t be with an expert player. An Impulsive a$$h0LL. Who has no self-control and addictions..

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Even if you’re completely crazy for him. And obsessed with him. And completely addicted to his attention on you. You really have to push yourself to think of him as an imaginary character. Cause you’ll be beyond hurt. ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

[BlurryHaze]

I only have the 1 answer:

Everything was normal up until one evening when she said she wanted to break off with me and that she was very sorry that she couldn't talk more about it. I tried getting in touch with her daily but didn't hear off her again for months on end, and when I finally did she was in another country and was getting ready to be married to a much older man her family arranged her with.

Long story short she had been trafficked and I spent many years just trying to find out that she was safe & well.

(Sorry if it was too much for your question!!!💐)

[Paris13]

Thank You and So Unfair... Like Wow, Where DO WE find them? xx

[BlurryHaze]

I like to think everything happens for a reason, and there was a lot to process, but I would be lying to myself if I said that I moved on, that I am over it because it still is ingrained in my head. I should have reiterated that it wasn't really my choice or hers that it ended. Thank you x

[Paris13]

Take Care, @blurryhaze Huggggs. xx

[BlurryHaze]

@Paris13 Thanks a lot you as well! Hugs x

[Paris13]

@blurryhaze More Huggggs. xx

[TacosRAwesome]

Wouldn't go as far as 50 unless I'm digging deep but

1. Quit his job and made very little effort to find a new one.

2. Basically pressured me into moving in with him

3. All the other women he had feelings for and found amazing

4. Blamed me for lack of sex but didn't want to fuck off

5. I was doing everything at the end

6. His talent at dishing it but not taking it.

[Paris13]

Some Men Are Horrible. xx

[matchrestore]

All but one of my previous relationships ended because one of us moved away. I'm still friends with all of them. The only one that ended poorly was because he was controlling and jealous and thought since I was bi that every single other person I was friends with was a threat. That didn't last long.

[belle_kai]

He looked at women for way too long

He was a different religion to mine & his parents wouldn't accept me

I wanted to get married eventually and have kids. His goal was to get the latest Mercedes car...

He never made me orgasm and was very selfish sexually

There's probably more but they were the main ones

[ThinkFitness23]

Can’t lie I could be guilty of looking at woman and wanting a new Merc, judge me 😆

BUT

A man not even trying to pleasure his partner WTF!

[annabananna]

He acted like Andrew Tate and put my dog on the electrical box that attached to the house. The dog couldn’t get down and was horrified. Poor thing stayed on it for hours until I got home. I had to get a ladder to get him down and I’m glad he didn’t fall down. I didn’t know who did it at first and it freaked me out and then months later he told me it was him. I wondered why my dog hated him.

[77five]

Your fucking pfp 😂😂😂

[art84]

I dont have a ex. But my brother left his ex girlfriend for a few reasons.

She wouldn't take care of her children like make them food for breakfast just cereal.

She would always get into fights with my brother over little things.

She would go out with friends after work and come home late at night.

She never cleaned the apartment and it was a mess everytime.

She had a bad anger and would get physical with my brother like hit him with her fist.

She cheated on him when she was broken up with my brother.

[FunkyMonkee]

No, only about 3 or 4.

1. She lied to me several times.

2. She stole from me.

3. She stopped fucking me after only 4 of our 10 years together.

4. She cheated on me!

[Paris13]

Wow!!! SINGLE NOW? xx

[FunkyMonkee]

For the past 21 years. Not by choice, I'll have you know!

[Twalli]

Never broke up. Can only think of one or two reasons I may break up with my current girlfriend. None of them come close to the multitude of reasons I wouldn't break up with her in terms of how important they are

[Paris13]

Unconditional Love is Great. xx

[BoobMan]

I kinda stop counting after I reach the one where we break up! lol!

[Paris13]

lol!!! Easy to Lose Count, @BoobMan xx

[Jaggermoves12655]

Lying and playing sick games with me is what made me take this decision and I don't regret it at all!!

[Paris13]

Ahh, Th eOld Gaslight "No DElight." I forgot to ADD it. xx

[WindAtMyBack]

Why hasn't anyone posted this?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/ABXtWqmArUU

[TroyDT]

I would not have the patience to wait for 50 reasons.

[Paris13]

Over Time... But I was no Angel. xx

[pizzalovershouse]

Lies treated me like I was the one who dint have trust which is what a good liar does

[Paris13]

GasLight Villain. xx

[pizzalovershouse]

😊👍

[msc545]

Not that many, but enough that her absence is a relief.

[Paris13]

Ahhhhhhhhh. xx

[msc545]

One of the few people I seriously wish I had never met.

[Drumlin2001]

She left me actually. But as it turns out there was jne subject we had very different views on (regarding children), we wouldn't have worked out.

[NathanDavis]

I think that would be 48 reasons too many... lmao

[menina]

Nope, I have zero reasons because I don't have exes.