Have u missed someone badly after u cut him off?

[Anonymous]

I was afraid that I was falling for him badly, and I wasn’t so sure for his feelings. I had so many doubts and frustration. So I decided to cut him off cause I thought that I will fell a relief after so many months.

Now that he is gone I miss him badly. And i have a question in my mind “what if” … a question that is killing me day by day

[Anonymous]

Yes, me too, I cried for her like almost 2 years randomly but after I said just fuck this I need to go on with my life.

[Asker]

You never looked for her?

[Opinion Owner]

After more then a year of doing everything to get her even more farther away so she could just continue her life.

[Opinion Owner]

It was kind of late and she already was kind of hating me.

[Asker]

So you were the first to cut her off, and after that you repented it, but was too late?

[Opinion Owner]

Well I cut her off because she was so attached that she wouldn't continue her life without me, so I really had to give her the chance to be happy

[Opinion Owner]

It was the most painfull thing I ever did in my life, the pain was really unberable many many times, nobody should ever get through what I did

[Asker]

I understand you. So sorry for that!

When did u understand that you wanted her back?

[Opinion Owner]

Actually when I realized I still cry after her and my soul feels so sad and the pain seemed unberable.

[Asker]

Yeah… for me is the same. And the worst part is that is becoming worse day by day while I thought that by time i would forgot

[Opinion Owner]

Well eventually you do let it go.. but you go through fire for that

[Jamie05rhs]

So talk to him.

[Asker]

It’s not so simple! As I said I am afraid that i will be the one who loves harder

[Jamie05rhs]

No need to get love involved. Save your feelings for later. This is the "business" phase.

[Asker]

Ehat do u mean with business phase?

[Jamie05rhs]

The business phase is the phase where you gather at the table and have a mature discussion about what you each are looking for and wanting out of a relationship. And then you each decide if you want to pursue a further conversation with the other person.

[Asker]

You are right! Thank you

[Jamie05rhs]

You're welcome! Thanks! 😃😊