Would you breakup with someone if they admitted they “almost cheated” on you? (Page 2)

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And if you were the one who almost cheated on them, would you confess to them or keep it to yourself? (See clips below for example) I have grown because there was a time I didn't breakup with an almost cheater. And there was a time i took back an actual cheater. But never again. And I’ve stuck to that. There was also a time I emotionally cheated and because I don’t do well with guilt, I told him. He was mad and hurt. But he forgave me. #FeelFreeToList #Confessions

RavVid · Answer

Almost cheating is a tough one. You'd feel like chucking her out but then they didn't so you have to give her credit for that. If it was almost cheating with a guy at work that she will have to be in contact with, I'd probably think she will do it eventually and chuck her out.

I have never confessed but the girlfriend of the time was very suss. She gave me the best sex she had ever done.

TrueConfection · Answer

That happened. I stayed with him, but it's difficult to not resent him for that and it's been over 20 years. I wouldn't let it go a second time.

belle_kai · Answer

Yes because almost will eventually lead to "I did"

AdithyaR · Answer

Depends on what the almost means, the context. Most of the times it would make me uneasy and unable to trust them.

JustinTheGreat · Answer

Oof. I forgave my husband for the time he cheated on me when we first dated in high school. I forgave him for the time he admitted he almost cheated. And I forgave him when he admitted that he did cheat on me again years ago.
At this point if it happens again, I’m done. Whether he cheats, tries to cheat, or just flirts with someone else, I’m gone.

snackthatsmilesback · Answer

No not in my current relationship. We both have a history w cheating so if anything even remotely like cheating feels like a good idea, we have to tell each other so we can catch it early n handle it.

If it was to that point where he already done some shit tho, that's already past thought to action. That's lies n u been out on a date w another man. That's full cheating in my book. I don't know if I'd break it off, but I'd definitely have to separate for a bit n decide.

Mark987 · Answer

Already happened. I went home and she was partying with my friends. Good friend took her... I only found days later... but I beat him

TaureanBull81 · Answer

When you're in the position where you've almost cheated (emotionally), you know deep down that there's something wrong or missing in your relationship so that's when we pretty much check out @DizzyDesii. I did this in my last relationship but never said anything to my exGF as she was verbally and emotionally abusive right up to the day I left her. I don't regret confiding in another woman during that time of my life.

BJP21 · Answer

You can't split the hairs on cheating. Almost a cheat is a cheat. It would depend how the other person defines the cheat.

Anonymous · Answer

If we were in thd dating stage I would be worried for the future.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Yes, because the "almost cheated" one is clearly not committed.

msc545 · Answer

I would breakup with someone who told me they almost cheated.

TrillXHippy · Answer

I would automatically break up with that person. No ifs and or buts about it

Abdulwahh · Answer

Almost that's close I won't seal the deal with that person.

exitseven · Answer

Almost cheating is not cheating. Everyone gets tempted by something. If they have the integrity to resist temptation, that is a good thing.

Sun_Kim-Ai · Answer

No. But then again, I got cheated on and forgave it, so I don't know if my opinion counts.

Cassie88 · Answer

The fact that they "almost" cheated means they did not, in fact, actually cheat, so no, I wouldn't break up over that.

Wish4UrB00ty · Answer

Yeah I don’t think I could trust them after that. Like I might try to move forward but I don’t think it would work. Lol!

Dargil · Answer

I would not. I'd talk it out with her on why she was tempted and am I falling short somewhere?

Sparkie460 · Answer

I came close to cheating several times but I couldn't go through with it. Almost cheating doesn't count. I didn't say anything. I know my wife wouldn't cheat on me

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