Why do I want my ex to come back even though I’d not accept him back?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I miss the time we were happy together.

Deep down I wish he came back, but one thing I know for sure, what he has done broke me apart and the pain he caused me I think is almost equivalent of killing a person.

I feel like a person who betrayed your trust, who left you and just felt happy without you in your life isn’t worth a single thought and I would probably end up hating him for what he has done, because he hurt me the most I’ve ever been hurt. He knew me and he knew that would crush me but he still did what he did. I should hate him for this, why do I miss him though?

I do still want him to come back even if I’d not accept him back. Why’s that?

[Shamalien]

I’m in a similar situation with my ex. I did nothing wrong, she just got all nuts and broke up with me. I wanted her to come back for a long time, but now? Idk…I don’t know if I could take her back

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

How long has it been since you two broke up?

[Shamalien]

4 months x. x

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

What you need is some kind of rebound. Be it sex or whatever, just do it.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am not willing to have sex unless it’s with someone I love. I don’t love anyone but him though.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I have no experience in this field, so I cannot be of help. You can search online for 'how to forget about your ex' or something like that.

But if you need someone to listen to you, then you have the right guy!

[loveslongnails]

Why? Simple... you want payback. You want to make him hurt. You don't miss HIM, you miss the "moments you were happy". You do NOT miss him, so stop deluding yourself. What you seek now is revenge. So, prepare yourself by digging two graves.

[OneManOnly01]

Might sound harsh but it sounds like it’s your ego wanting him to come back for you.

[SlothySlob]

You don't want him back, you want what you had with him back.

[Mayo503]

Go and talk to him ….
Is he still with his new girlfriend

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I’ve talked to him enough, I contacted him a few times after our break up, asking him to rethink his decision and that I loved him and would forgive him any pain he has caused. I just wanted to try again and give our relationship a try cause it was worth it for me.

He kept saying sorry but he can’t give what I want anymore and that have I returned earlier to his country, we’d be married long ago cause he loved me a lot, but has no feelings left anymore.

[Mayo503]

You need to move on ….
Good luck tho

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I have no idea why though, why would he choose someone else over me. I am moving on, it’s just I don’t understand. He was crazy in love with me, I was his first, he was my first, he was my fr***ing Fiance!!! I haven’t cheated, I haven’t done anything to harm him, it was just distance and time that set us apart. Why would he not wonder how it would feel to meet and just try one more time.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

All I did was being loving, caring, motivating, supportive girlfriend. What the hell is wrong with him.

[Mayo503]

Maybe he give up on you….
And you should do the same ….
You're a good looking woman so you’ll be ok
If that’s you in your pic

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

That’s me in the pic and I know he gave up on me, it’s just I don’t know why, I have my bad sides but I was a really great girlfriend…

[Mayo503]

What did you do to him…?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I don’t understand what did I do wrong…

Loving him?
Supporting him when noone else did?
Believing in him when noone else did?
Motivating him when noone else did?
Wanting him when girls rejected him because he was broke?
Making him feel loved and wanted?
Being loyal to him even in a suffering long distance relationship?

He is what he is today because of me and yet he left.

Yes, there are things I did in a wrong way or I could do better, after all it was my first relationship too, but overally I was a really very good girlfriend… That’s why he waited for 2 YEARS…

Because he knew I was worth that wait.

How could he just throw this all away?

I don’t know he he chose over me, but I know women, I am sure, personality wise that new girl won’t be as good as him as I was.

He was already suffering in the beginning of their relationship. He is her 3rd or 4th boyfriend, he was 1st for me.

[Mayo503]

I don’t know you need to get over him
What job are you doing…?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Marketing,
Modeling
Part-time teaching.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

How does it matter?

[Mayo503]

Can I message you …?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Sure, you can.

[Mayo503]

It’s not allowing me

[Mayo503]

You message me first see if that works

[Anonymous]

I miss my ex but I just have to remember she's not the person I thought she was

[Yellovv]

Find somebody else instead...