So I found out my boyfriend of one year already had a girlfriend for 7 years. He tried to get rid of her but feels bad and feels like it’s his duty to stay with her.
I didn’t really understand that but took it as he doesn’t love me enough so we met for the last time and he cried and I cried. We decided to keep in touch while he tries to break up with her and I date other guys.
The next day, He then said we are not the same as before so I got pissed and decided in my head to forget him and move on.
Anyways, he knew I had planned at date the next week. After the date with another guy I told him, “tell me what u want exactly bc ur not being clear. Are we done? But u just wanna keep in touch?”I don’t want things lingering and would just rather end it. And he didn’t answer and kept asking about the date.
I said, “think about it for a month or two bc I want u to be very clear.” He said “ok..” then he texts a few days later ab how he’s doing and tries to keep the conversation ongoing like we did before the “break”.
What is he thinking? Just jealous or curious? Or stinging me along?
I didn’t really understand that but took it as he doesn’t love me enough so we met for the last time and he cried and I cried. We decided to keep in touch while he tries to break up with her and I date other guys.
The next day, He then said we are not the same as before so I got pissed and decided in my head to forget him and move on.
Anyways, he knew I had planned at date the next week. After the date with another guy I told him, “tell me what u want exactly bc ur not being clear. Are we done? But u just wanna keep in touch?”I don’t want things lingering and would just rather end it. And he didn’t answer and kept asking about the date.
I said, “think about it for a month or two bc I want u to be very clear.” He said “ok..” then he texts a few days later ab how he’s doing and tries to keep the conversation ongoing like we did before the “break”.
What is he thinking? Just jealous or curious? Or stinging me along?
What Guys Said
Sounds out he has been stringing you both along and having a good time. It is a stretch to say your boyfriend when he treats like a side dish or back-up plan. What he did was so wrong to you...