My ex came back after saying never. What should I do?

[experience]

My ex said he would never come back 3 months ago but then he came back. If you were in my place, what would you do? I mean what should I do? Should I, at least, talk to him?

[Rosexøxø]

Depends on why he left, and who ended it, and the reason it ended, tbh.

I have no way of knowing who was at fault. Just two strangers and one said I’ll never go to point A, goes, and then person number 2 says, should I speak with them for going to point A?

based on that term I’d say never speak to them because they just lied and verbally contradicted themselves.

Somewhat lack of control (at a glance) and lack of self-discipline. What is their goal and motive? Can they commit to that?

If they couldn’t commit to their own goal seemingly for the the other person. That lack of control seems a bit like love. Sometimes love is felt and unplanned for, but a version of love is planned for and responsible.

Which type of love does the other person want from this contradictory person?

Commit to the relationship and commit to the goals. Stop dancing back and forth? 🤷‍♀️

usually a mistake that beckons a break up isn’t worth fixing. They probably had a lot of chances to behind with and the major chance at love with another special individual.

Did it work out the first time? 🤷‍♀️

Yeah it’s okay if we’re not perfect, but if we can’t handle certain things we shouldn’t attempt the bigger ones.

If one of the two parties can’t handle a relationship, they should try committed friendships, or just leave the ex and hope to move on with the best outcome with another person who will appear more compatible and more willing to cooperate.

I just don’t think ex’s are good news.

They aren’t angels speaking of Jesus’ birth lol what could they possibly say that we didn’t hear before?

That they ACTUALLY love us? Lol

This time after all those other times it didn’t click?

[Rosexøxø]

You’re choice, and maybe the context will appear more promising, but I don’t recommend.

Try anyways if you need convincing.

I got back with my ex a few times and yeah he saved a lot of people…

He just was a terrible lover.

Always absent so he couldn’t actually love 🤷‍♀️

Even when present he couldn’t express it in. A wholesome way.

Very generic and “groupy” in compliments but at least I learned.

Maybe hear what your ex has to say so they can further prove to you beyond ALL AND ANY DOUBT that they’re not changing for you.

We can try for others, but very few change for others. We usually just try to change for ourselves but even for ourselves we lack that stamina and knowledge. Sometimes.

[designer1]

No one can tell you what is the right thing to do for you since we are not in your shoes. If the relationship ended in the first place, there was a reason for it. I would say to reflect on this reason before you reach back out to him because history likes to repeat itself.

[Still-alive]

Do you want him back?

if yes. Talk to him. If not don’t talk to him.

they are always stubborn like that in the beginning but they eventually have to deal with the emotions of you not being there. Every human being must go through that after a breakup. So he probably missed you and is maybe regretting his decision to breakup with you.

so its up to you if you wanna start things back up again. Just start simple. Say hi how are you and go form there

[Guy13]

Sounds right... break-up...3-6 month Mess/Miss you...

3-6 month, yeah, never again me too-for damn sure...

6 months 1 year grieved and ready.

[Pinay_ako]

Do you have kids with him? How did the relationship ended?

[molonski2]

Id say its time to Cut Clean the dead wood , you don't want you time wasted , set him free , its just convenience , he said he was never coming back , tell him to get out of your life.

[Cecinene]

At least find out what made him to come back, if it's a reasonable one then you can allow him and then give him a second chance, but if it's a filthy one, don't listen to him any longer.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I'd tell him to fuck off, but it looks like you have a baby, so you probably try to make it work lol
Another reason why kids ruin your life

[devilish-cutie]

It all depends on why you broke up and how you feel. He might have come back cause he didn't find better... for now

[CreatingWonders]

If it was me I’d tell him to do one, but that’s my choice not yours.


Is he the father to your child?


Do you really want him back?


Why did you break up?


You have to think about the good and bad points.

[Nivinxus]

Say that he said never, and hold him up to it. The dude is wishy-washy with his relationships and that is a red flag.

[Jdjfjcjj]

I'd assume if someone, guy or girl, came back 3 months later, it's because of a lack of available options to replace you

[lightbulb27]

talk to him. I assume...

unless you don't feel safe...

[Drumlin2001]

Missing a lot of back story and context but I'd say probably not take him back. Why should he be able to dictate the relationship. He walked away.

[Surely]

If the two of you don’t have children together. Then you have no reason to talk to him unless you still want to be friends.
Entirely up to you!

[BagoH]

We don't know your story and the reason of the breakup so how can we tell?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Well that all depends. Why did he leave and did he leave on bad terms

[douride2]

Tell him to keep on going.

[SweetTwistedSatanist]

You remind him what 'never' means and move on.

[noohair]

My belief is never go backwards in life.

[peedy]

Cold shoulder act like he's not even there

[Alex8736]

what caused him to leave 3 months ago?

[headphonekim]

Sure talk to him.

[In_Trance]

block him