Do you choose to find someone just because you believe the person you love doesn't meant to be yours because of he's sexuality and can't be together?

[Ashashbaby]

He loves me very much, but since we are both men, he still plans to marry a woman. But I want to be with him, so now he doesn't want to look at my face, he's face is blank, pretending I'm not around he get mad at me and why does he act like this? is he sending me to move away and move on now if he doesn't even talk about it?

[Anonymous]

There could be so many reason for this but I'm gonna go for the most basic/obvious reason and say it's because he wants to start a family and doesn't see a way to do that with you since you're both men. Maybe try offering him options such as adopting kids, a poly/open relationship, or even surrogacy. Honestly though, try real hard to have that conversation with him to find out what his true intentions are. Maybe he's lost attraction, maybe he's decided he wants something new in his life, maybe he's come to realize a different sexuality. Like I said so many different reasons.

[devilish-cutie]

a lot of gay men dont want to be gay