I was seeing a guy for about three months and things were going great. Everything seemed to click, and after 32 years on this earth I finally felt I found my person. I started to notice distance so I addressed it and he told me that he was having family problems. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to believe him so I gave him the option to end us in & deal with his family problems. I figured if he was lying to me, this would be his way out. He told me that he did want to keep seeing me, but that he wanted to continue taking things slow & wanted to see me before leaving on vacation. He proceeded to ghost me until the day we were supposed to see each other and again use the excuse of family, saying that things had been rough & we would reschedule after his trip. While he was on his vacation, I saw him in a story with an influencer from our city that I was following. Turns out they had met just before he left for vacation, and she was going to the same place as him, and they grew into a relationship down there. I confronted him, and he did not apologize nor justify anything, he just wished me the best. Within a week she had already met all of his friends and family and vice versa. I deleted my social media because I do not want to keep seeing things pop up on our local gossip pages and her fellow influencer friends posting about him and her now being the new hot couple. It’s so hard when someone leaves you for someone else, but to have also lied to me instead of just telling me he met someone else and for it to be someone who is very well known that I looked up to, I am struggling to not compare, and to find my worth again. All I can picture now is them living happily ever after. Her and I have many resemblances, which also makes it extremely hard to find things that I may have that she does not. I just don’t understand why he could not tell me that he was with her and why I had to find out the way I did.
How do I get over him choosing someone well known?
