What traits do you show when you end a relationship? how do you rebuild yourself afterwards?

[Anonymous]

I tend to mirror what I receive. It’s quite challenging to control my emotions. I feed off my environment a lot and others energy even in good times. I go into emotional survival mode but I do not manipulate any one or situation just stop all social interaction and investment in others. I often take myself that low I need assistance to gain consistency and confidence back in myself. I lock down my socials and go into hiding. Answering calls etc only when my brain can handle it. I do not tell anyone what I decide but I throw around a lot of ideas of possible next moves to protect myself from opinions of others and hyper fixate on my flaws and bad personality traits in private. (This makes me quite unstable looking to others as I can't regulate at times) I then rebuild myself by reaching out to people that hung in there whilst I got my shit together and apologise for lack of communication, and try to fix my stuff that I broke whilst healing.

[Anonymous]

I pretend to not give a fuck. Actually I convince myself that I actually don't.
Women are happy end a relationship when they know a guy will still be thinking about them and be miserable without her.
But as soon as she sees that the guy couldn't care less, her massive sociopathic lady ego kicks in and she'll do anything to get him to care again.
This includes trying to get back together and holding onto him until she finally feels like she's won

[Opinion Owner]

Which is why crying and begging her to stay is a sure fire way to keep her gone forever.
But if you just say "Ok, whatever", she'll probably say something like, "Unless you'd be willing to make this work... because I am"

[lorenzomichael]

If it's me that's ending the relationship I'd show no traits. But If I'm not the one, then fuck it I'm to shallow to give a shit. I would just move on..

[jennifer_bloom]

I think of the boyfriend / husband as a promoted person in my life, so if we break up, they get demoted to friend or previous friend, not enemy since they downgrade one rank in my life and not 20 ranks.

[itsalyssaagain]

At this point I’m sooooo used to it, it’s just routine lol. I’ve set out my priorities in my life so when something ends I kind of just fall back into my priorities.

[Asker]

I hope that life doesn’t ever kick you in the as* too hard that you can’t get back up 🙏

[itsalyssaagain]

Aw thanks! Every time I get kicked by life I get back up more determined 😈

[Christoff92]

Tons off my girlfriend that were with went away for college and career opportunity reasons. So we're now friends. Never had that experience to tell you the truth 😊

[Anonymous]

Try focusing on yourself and ding things that make you feel good about yourself.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Opinion Owner]

You are welcome.