Like I don’t understand the point why waste 2 years. So for almost that duration it was hard to get her to be on the same page it would usually turn into arguments I had to go with her suggestions that put us in a bad spot to avoid arguments. I had to watch her shows and neglect what I wanted to watch to appease her when I would watch my shows she would leave the room. She’s moving in with her friend and she has done so much planning and logistics that she never did when we were together. Like I don’t understand I could be at a totally different spot right now in life and not having to go through this mess of a breakup. She often would change stories meaning and run to her friends and family and make me out to be the bad person. It’s frustrating cause I didn’t see the red flags at the beginning two weeks into the relationship she says I’m used to getting my way and would would call her exes toxic. But now I see what the pattern is she would abuse because that’s what she would do during this relationship cause she would was verbally and emotionally abusive but in the end she would run to family and friends and say the relationship was toxic. She all the time called me a stupid motherfucker, she slapped me in the back of my head twice, called me a bitch. I never did anything to her I’m a person of strong morals I couldn’t ever do anything like that. Her mom even acknowledged how she treated me like shit same with her sister but now they are just taking her side not to piss her off
Why is it a women would enter a relationship but not be fully committed to it?
