Is this cheating, I found out my now ex girlfriend has been seeing her ex, I found out online cute photos of them together?

[Libra9292]

So as the title says,

4 years completely destroyed, my now ex girlfriend claims she's done nothing wrong and because she breaks up with me every week it doesn't count as cheating, she says she never slept with him but she did see him because apparently he was sad, because his fucking dog died,

And recently she's been comparing me to her ex a lot during arguments, arguments that she's caused, I don't have the energy to argue with her at all, because it ends up me being blammed for everything, so I try my best to not doing anything wrong living on egg shells

For the last 2 years she's made my life hell, destroyed my mental health made me out to be crazy, constantly acussing me of being a cheat or unfaithful, abusing me for even speaking to female work colleagues or saying thank you to female waitress,

I've blocked her now on all forms of contact,

It just sickness me even tho she's been caught having cute hang outs with her ex, she tried to burn me even more telling me I'm the worst person ever, telling me she doesn't even want to be with me, we was literally having sex together 5 days ago looking at holidays

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8 mo

When I posted this message I didn't really explain how I found out correctly as I'm still stressed, this all came out yesterday, well we had a day booked together at ranch for horse riding an archery, but typical her, she caused another argument, which led to her breaking up with me again, an her telling me how her ex was great and I'm so bad, so I called her bluff I Facebooked him turns out 5/6 weeks ago, she was hanging around with him, videos together love heart filters

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8 mo

It's been a strange day today, knowing that it's completely over, like that feeling of emptiness,
Does she have regret?
Is she sorry?
Does she realised her self I'm gone for good?

Like I don't get why you would spend time with an ex for what ever reasons, like I would tolerate it
or allow it.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I stopped reading at "ex girlfriend claims she's done nothing wrong and because she breaks up with me every week it doesn't count as cheating" because there is literally nothing that could follow to make her less trash. Have more self-respect in your next relationship, not just for your sake, but the relationship's sake. You dodged a bullet with this one. At least it was only 4 years.

[Drewtate]

People can find infinite reasons to justify their shittiness.
I would continue you to f*ck her in the short term with an eye to move on to a better woman who's going to be loyal. In the meantime work on yourself, fitness, finance etc.

[Libra9292]

I wouldn't waste the money on petrol, I'm actually doing well, I'm construction manager, I kick box I littlerally fought last week, I've got Thailand booked for December

[Drewtate]

Exactly spend no money on her. Let her run to you. Pump and dump her.

[Libra9292]

She's blocked now, I wouldn't even entertain her lies, I knew for a while now that my relationship is doomed and she's not changing guess this is the closure to walk away

[ta-ra]

She sounds very narcissistic. It does seem she has been cheating, physically and emotionally. I'm sorry that happened to you, and I'm glad you found out.

[Libra9292]

I forgot to mention our ages, but we're both 30/31, but she acts so imature, over the top cruel abusive behaviour, silent treatment for days, bombarding txts arguing harrasing me, constantly blaming me for everything wrong, she would cause an argument, and I would try handle it calm and assertive, speaking with logic and facts and she would still fight me to the death till I would loose my cool, then make out I'm a monster.

[ta-ra]

Psychological abuse, gaslighting, she is a narcissist. Be thankful you've dropped her. No one deserves that. You deserve better.

[Libra9292]

I was always asking myself is she a narcissist, she would say to me "oh I broke up with my ex's for lesser things than what you've done"

I even tried confronting her in a calm way about her behaviour, that its cruel and erratic, that she needs help, and I'll come with her to go therapy and it was just turned back on me that I'm gaslighting her

[Libra9292]

Every argument was a never ending loop, and it will always come back on me, that it's my fault, and I'm the problem

[ta-ra]

No sweetie it isn't. You just have a good heart. I've been where you are and I promise you, you are not at fault. Some people just suck and drain the life out of you because they are miserable. Misery loves company.
Leave her, heal, and meet someone who loves and respects you.
Just count your blessings you didn't have children with her.

[Libra9292]

I've blocked her, I've cut all communication, I can't even think of believing anything she says

[ta-ra]

Wish you the best of luck

[es20490446e]

You shall judge a person for how they behave in the present, versus expecting them to be any different.

[DextroShade]

She is a toxic whore who deserves to die alone and miserable, you did the right thing by breaking it off.

[Avicenna]

Of course she's cheating

[Libra9292]

I was reading through the txts and she claims her ex is friends with her dad still, and that's how she found out that his dog died, just seems that woman has an answer for everything

[Avicenna]

Yup...

[Billlewis]

It sure sounds like it.

[Libra9292]

You know what's unfair, the fact I would forgive most crap, arguing, drama etc, but I won't forgive cheating

[Anonymous]

Sadly, it is a part of life nowadays.

[Libra9292]

I can't believe she tried to make out she's not done anything wrong, and that hanging around with an ex is fine