So I was seeing a guy for about eight months and we broke up/he told me he thought I was too girly and he wanted somebody more like his ex. The thing is it’s hard for me to make friends and while we were dating I became friends with his sister and his female cousin. I felt bad cutting them loose but also didn’t know if it would be weird for him if I stayed friends with them and I didn’t want to cause any problems so I texted him “Hey, I wanted to check in to ask what you thought about me staying friends with your sister and cousin? I don’t have that many friends in the area and they invited me to hang out but I know when we were breaking up you expressed concern about us remaining friends because you didn’t want me to talk about you to them so I wanted to make sure it would be okay with you if we hung out. I have a friendship with them outside of our relationship so I wouldn’t talk about you but if you are uncomfortable with it I don’t have to hang out with them anymore.” He texted back the next day, “You don’t have to ask me for permission. Make your own fucking decision.” Was it really wrong of me to ask?
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