I'd say it was something worth paying attention to depending on the frequency and context. Generally speaking, a man shouldn't talk about his ex's any more than is absolutely necessary, and by necessary I mean if your new girl really needs, not just wants, to know about her. To me, it's an equal red flag if a woman wants to know too much about the ex's.
Its a red flag even if the their ex truly is bat shit crazy as they would have to answer to whether 1) their mate selection abilities are flawed, 2) the qualities they seek in others are flawed, 3) they put little value in who and at what speed they give their commitment away, 4) and if relevant, why they stayed in the relationship for so long even after realizing their ex was in fact crazy.
Depends if the ex was actually crazy. I had to defend my sister from one of her crazy ex’s. Whereas I wouldn’t call any of the women I’ve dated crazy. They had quirks, but they weren’t loons or overbearing.
I think everyone is crazy in some way... but there's also good crazy and bad crazy... knowing and accepting that is not a bit deal but depends how it's said to someone else and why.
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I'd say it was something worth paying attention to depending on the frequency and context. Generally speaking, a man shouldn't talk about his ex's any more than is absolutely necessary, and by necessary I mean if your new girl really needs, not just wants, to know about her. To me, it's an equal red flag if a woman wants to know too much about the ex's.
Or... she started off one way and wound up being something entirely different later. You never know with some people.
Yes ma'am i always believe if someone saying bad about others in your face that means he/she will say bad about you too in their future ex face.
Salute to your level of intelligence
it can go two ways...
now, if the "crazy exes" are in plural... then yes, definitely more of a possible red flag, lol
the common denominator
Its a red flag even if the their ex truly is bat shit crazy as they would have to answer to whether 1) their mate selection abilities are flawed, 2) the qualities they seek in others are flawed, 3) they put little value in who and at what speed they give their commitment away, 4) and if relevant, why they stayed in the relationship for so long even after realizing their ex was in fact crazy.
Depends if the ex was actually crazy. I had to defend my sister from one of her crazy ex’s. Whereas I wouldn’t call any of the women I’ve dated crazy. They had quirks, but they weren’t loons or overbearing.
I think most people have had at least one crazy ex I know I sure have but I've also had real decent ones to.
I did have an ex that was crazy. I guess I knew it before long but there were a lot of good qualities about her too.
I think everyone is crazy in some way... but there's also good crazy and bad crazy... knowing and accepting that is not a bit deal but depends how it's said to someone else and why.
Yes and no..
Yes , bc they could lack accountability, they themselves could be that crazy ex
No, because they may be right. But still why is he/she talking about exes? Move on
Good point, why dwell on the past. I talk about exs in situations and stories on here but never on a date.
they could be right about it
exs can be very crazy
Yes, that is not a good sign. It says more about them than it does their ex.
You don't know if everybody is crazy right away
It would depend, I've had 1-2 crazy exes, and they were legitimately crazy and controlling
My exes are all crazy because I prefer dating clinically insane women.
I don’t think so, I have a crazy ex who I have a restraining order on though.
Not if that ex is crazy.
Not always, their ex could indeed be crazy
Maybe you are the crazy ex?
Blaming others for everything is a sign of SCHIZO!!! 😂😂😂
@Inbox are you okay?
@ChefPapiChulo Forget your meds today?
@Inbox hey man, you should probably talk to a professional.
@ChefPapiChulo I think you should take your meds. They have 24/7 emergency hotlines if you ran out of prescriptions.
Usually it is. It's a projection of their own ish.