been together like 3 years... he's 15 years older than me. we used to fight a lot. i'd accuse him of talking to other girls (bc he's done this before) - he's not super attractive (i find him attractive). i could care less anymore really. i feel depressed. we have been in physical fights. i'm not a boofer. i have a great (manager job), he's broken a rib of mine, and broke my ankle. since these episodes - we have not physically fought. i have 3 kids. i feel like i'm missing out on time with JUST them. and i feel like this is turning into resentment (although this part isn't his fault). i'm afraid i just resent him in general though after everything that's happened. he left his marriage for me (which wasn't really a marriage - they were basically roommates (from what he tells me anyways!). now he like copies everything i do. its really annoying. if i get a drink, he does. if i want new shoes, he does. i'm not even kidding. its EVERYTHING. if i say i dont feel good, he doesn't. i just don't even know what to do anymnore. i barely have time alone without him. its really bringing me down.
Once the relationship becomes violent you have to leave. Not just for yourself but your kids, no man on this earth is worth putting them in danger. You may think you have a handle on the situation or that he’d never do anything to them, but if he can be that violent with you, there’s no telling what could happen to them. I know this doesn’t address him copying you, I just think this is a much bigger issue to address that I can’t ignore. It wouldn’t matter what else you say he did, once violence and children entered the story, nothing else mattered.
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Sounds like he's trying to relate to you more. Get closer however the abuse is not good to hear. He could be copying you to drive you crazy who knows. Why not just ask him
Sht , I think you have answered your own question , get rid of him , that's not remotely helpful , it's destructive.
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wait what? he broke one of your ribs and your ankle? ! i would be out there immediately and take the kids and run. he has no ties to you! those aren't his kids and you two aren't married. what are you still doing there? he left his marriage for you. and you two aren't even married... what is going on? please value yourself more and be safe
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So make space
Dump him dummy
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