Why does my boyfriend copy me, why is he constantly on my nerves anymore?

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been together like 3 years... he's 15 years older than me. we used to fight a lot. i'd accuse him of talking to other girls (bc he's done this before) - he's not super attractive (i find him attractive). i could care less anymore really. i feel depressed. we have been in physical fights. i'm not a boofer. i have a great (manager job), he's broken a rib of mine, and broke my ankle. since these episodes - we have not physically fought. i have 3 kids. i feel like i'm missing out on time with JUST them. and i feel like this is turning into resentment (although this part isn't his fault). i'm afraid i just resent him in general though after everything that's happened. he left his marriage for me (which wasn't really a marriage - they were basically roommates (from what he tells me anyways!). now he like copies everything i do. its really annoying. if i get a drink, he does. if i want new shoes, he does. i'm not even kidding. its EVERYTHING. if i say i dont feel good, he doesn't. i just don't even know what to do anymnore. i barely have time alone without him. its really bringing me down.

Why does my boyfriend copy me, why is he constantly on my nerves anymore?
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