My crush and I spent enough time with each other throughout the past two years. Although it's usually me who makes suggestions for activities (which he usually says no), he did used to invite me to a certain hobby of his on a weekly basis. But after just ONE time when I actually said no to joining, he just gave up inviting me completely.
How do I deal with mattering that little to someone?
Why does it bother you? You should be glad that happened and be thinking "now I know, sooner than later". Imagine dealing with that fragile little ego indefinitely going forward? Curious though - did you give him a reason for your declining his invite?
Just be glad you know his true colors now that he's a beta not a alpha
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So you turned him down once and haven’t asked why he hasn’t invited again.
Sounds like you didn’t put that much effort into letting him know your intentions.
He might not feel like playing games and if he’s inviting you out to than he may have a crush as well.
I’d say open the door have the direct conversation
He might have picked up on your signals wrong.
Sounds like he's just not that interested. Get along, little dowgie, get along. There ARE greener pastures.
Sounds like he got hurt by that he could be looking for someone that shares in his interests only.
He was never really into you. That’s okay. Just take it as a loss and move on. He was a crush, not a long time lover.
He is clearly not the one for you. You deserve so much more than he is willing to give to you… maybe it is time to move on….
You could ask him, because we only guessing. Put your ego/pride aside and ask him.
u it's called consistency...
He’s not that into you
Men are not your friends!
Find someone else
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