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Women should not be forced to date a nice guy (Page 4)
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"they bring what we've literally being searching for and can't find in other guys." So basically treating you like shit, jerking you around, lying to you and cheating on you, possibly physically abusing you, is what you have been looking for in a guy. Good to know.
Your take is quite messed up, i believe nobody can force another, and i think nobody forced you either, other people may advice you to date nice guys but that does not mean they forced you.
Don't force yourself for nothing. I ain't have a problem with that but hell if your guy sux and I see the attraction go break up with him, wait a little (since I like girls who can live without a partner and don't cry when they don't have a bf) and then I am avialable.
Nice guys don't call themselves nice guys and they don't feel entitled to anything. The guys you described in your take aren't nice guys. I don't know what they are but I know they aren't nice.
OK, go for the A-holes / bad boys and see just how hurt and messed up that gets you. Enjoy learning thr hard way. Silly little girl.
Why are you bitter? He is right. Here is a perfect analogy. You turn the stove on and put your hand on the stove and as a result get burned. Your mother takes care of the burn and warns you to be careful and not to do it again. You get curious and do it over and over. Then when you get burned really bad you cry to your mom but she already warned you. Same thing here. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. by the way, try to intellectually conversate and debate instead of insult. It's making you look bad.
Too bad so many of them choose to learn the hard way :(
I agree that just because a person is nice, doesn't mean they're owed something.
That being said, it was very frustrating to go on so many dates and then all of a sudden get the you're a nice/great guy.. but talk. Especially when you don't know what you did wrong and I don't go around telling others how nice I am, I just get told that. Huge fucking difference. I don't consider myself nice, I'm just me.
I also don't have sympathy for women who keep dating abusive men and then complain about how bad it was, only for them to find a guy who respects them and is genuinely interested and ditch them for the same guy they complained about or another guy who uses and abuses them. It's almost like they don't like you if you don't treat them like shit enough. Not all women of course, but I've met ones like that and I tend to steer clear of them.
The heart wants what it wants. we also don't understand men who have a gold digger in their hands and they clearly see it but they pretend they don't. welcome to human nature.
that happens to girls too. "you're nice but" "you're beautiful but" "I'm not into relationships but" at the the end of the day, one needs to find a person that will say "I'm crazy for you SO I'll marry you'
No one should be forced to date ANYONE. I want a woman to be with me because she wants me not because she is pressured to be with me.
that is called generalizing everyone has a different personalities with different tastes. if you study psychology you will understand that nice guy and bad boy doesn't exist its all about different personalities.
I read Mars and Venus on a date. It had a section about this, and it made sooo much sense. I finally understood why I turned down the nice guy, and it wasn't because he was nice - there were many other mistakes he was making.
No one is forcing you to date anyone. But you can't force anyone not to call you out for being shallow. You women have been calling men shallow for focusing on looks sine the beginning of time. But the fact s that women are at least as shallow as men when it come to their preferences and dating practices and, no matter what you say, women like you ARE going to continue to be called out for it.
Girls mainly want money, and it just happens most guys who are wealthy tend to be assholes.
Interestingly enough, guys who are arrogant assholes tend to be insecure, lazy, and controlling.
Yea women should date who they want, but also stop blaming the guys ( they choose to be with) for cheating, being players etc especially if they are not going to even fathom in their mind that a guy that they are involved with could possibly be a player, potential cheater, womanizer etc.
I would agree except that some of those players are pretending to be the kind of guy that the woman wants. That is not her fault.
@RationalLioness And that's why you take extra precaution. Its nothing but a lame excuse to be blinded by words, looks, and money.
I know that there is one, and only one reason why I'm not getting any pussy -- because I don't deserve it, and I know I'm not worthy even to kiss your feet.
Yep. Some men would fall on their ass realizing how low 'nice' can actually be on a woman's priority list, as long as he "catches her heart and she really adores him".
The real trick for those men is to learn how to get women to adore them.
I agree. And men should not feel pressured to ever be in a relationship. You only live once, so fuck as many women as possible. Bring on the Pussy Platter!
I find it funny you got a down vote for not being nice yet truthful. See honesty is never the best policy and being nice and respectful is a sure fire way to nowhere.
i agree. just like men shouldn't be forced to date women over a certain age or women with children or any criteria we deem unacceptable.
Nothing says women have to date nice guys. But they should also stop running to nice guys when they get hurt. Stop running to nice guys down the road when they get older and their marriages fail and stop using nice guys when all else fails.
^This!
yeah girl. preach. bad boys are more "fun", have bigger dicks, and know how to use them. they will also intrigue your female vanity and make you be on the edge all the time knwing he is desired by so many other women waiting in line. he is also a leader and grabs what he likes so you will grab something as well by living besides him. he also fulfills your childhood complexes of a big muscular protector. so its all in a good package. who can blame you for not wanting the scrawny beta pushover asskissing mr no good?
I would have responded to this but it seems people like you want to take the immature way without have the courage to ask what need's to be asked and not act like a butthurt 3 year old.
Nice guy? it's just a stereotype. You can't base a person on one trait and deemed what they are about. You should be more specific.. Like Mr doormat or Mr clueless.
I completely agree.
And by that same token, men should not be forced to like "meatier" girls opposed to the thin, pretty Barbie types simply because heavier girls find themselves offended by it.