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Sorry but you need to hear this:
Niceness, by itself, does not make you attractive.
If wanna keep getting your dick wet be a "bad boy". I took that route when I was 17, never changing.
Women want a nice guy with good ambition not some nerdy guys who want to write a comics...
This the problem...
You mentioned:
Women want a nice guy with good ambition
You have it so backwards. IT IS MY AMBITION to write comics and make a cartoon series. Something that will reach out to kids and motivate them to do well in life and show them that life can be great despite the hardships.
I guess you are calling all movie directions, actors (even actors that write and produce), book writers, etc... people who make millions a year NERDY just because they have a passion for what they do.
You're the type of woman I definitely wouldn't want to be around.
What do you consider ambition?
Here's the dictionary definition for you of "Ambition":
"a strong desire to do or to achieve something, typically requiring determination and hard work"
By your definition NERDY GUYS... like Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg... who were all NERDS and revolutionized the world with their NERDY hobbies had no ambition?
Comics may not be the best source for money, but he ain't gonna be poor either. Also, what's the problem with being nerdy? Nerds are simply people with a passion about a certain subject of study. If he applies himself on what he loves he might become rather rich, and many times famous (at least on a more local scale, albeit many get known worldwide because they followed their passions). Of course, it's not like he's gonna be a millionaire anytime soon, but thinking he'll make very few money is thinking small.
@RedHood7 Lol... thanks for that... Lol. No... but seriously thanks for backing me up, man :).
Couple of things I want to clarify:
1. I finished college and have a job in the IT field... so I'm making pretty decent money already.
2. I'm already published and I have sold quite a bit already with my comics. I have also made an apparel line based off the characters
3. I already have a well established fan-base in the upper 30 thousands...
4. I have been talking to producers about signing a cartoon deal. This is in the works.
So before anyone makes any assumptions that I am not doing well, I am not ambitious, etc., etc., etc., THINK AGAIN!!!
You're welcome. I'd love to see these comics you've published by the way
Wanting to write comics show your still a baby and live in a childlish world. Make comics your life goal is stupid plus you have really little chance to sell on day a comics... This is more an hopeless dream than an ambition.
Everything is a hopeless dream before it is recognized. What the fuck you think you would be typing on if it wasn't for the 'hopeless dreams' of many indiivduals? If you limit yourself to seemingly realistic goals then you'll never really excel.
@RedHood7 Then when you ll know you ll never been able to purses your dreams you ll get depressed. This sounds like a good things...
This girl does not know what ambition is.
Opinion owner, you said:
"This is more an hopeless dream than an ambition."
Everything a "hopeless dream" until you put the work in. Are you kidding me?
Here you go:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zLYECIjmnQs
Since you don't like men with "dreams" or "goals"... here's your man:
pmchollywoodlife.files.wordpress.com/.../...tr.jpg
Ambition=Must be rich for women. This is what they mean.
Might not be a good thing for the average human, but I ain't average, the MyTake owner apparently ain't average either, and I won't accept anything less than success. There's a big difference between dreaming and achieving, it's called: determination and confidence. Now step aside while I climb to the top.
@BubbleBoy69 Which means they dont want ambition, they want a guy who made it with few to no effort, a guy who won the lottery, a guy who was born into a rich family, not a guy with ambition who worked his ass off and earned everything he wanted in time.
@RedHood7 Yes. As the old say goes women love the doctor, lawyer, engineer and chase after them but how many women do you see willing to chase after the med student, layer, engineer busting his ass off to become successful in the future.
Is this bad to want to be with a stable man and not someone who always have money problem?
You can be friends with someone like you but can't be in a relationship. Do you know how stressful it's to be with someone who never have money?
Opinion Owner... you mentioned:
"Is this bad to want to be with a stable man and not someone who always have money problem? "
WTF Are you talking about? You're assuming that people who write comics do that all day and are hobos.
I already mentioned that I HAVE a COLLEGE DEGREE and that I WORK A 9-5 JOB IN THE I. T. FIELD... so I am making really good money.
Just because a person writes, makes music, or does something creative... a passion that they believe they can turn into a career down the road, DOES NOT MEAN THEY ARE BROKE.
Lol, you actually think comic books dont have a lot of money in it. Girl, it's no Hollywood, but yes, it has a shitton of money involved and when someone makes a hit they get a lotta money. Also, have you forgotten that the asker works in the IT field, has a college degree and comic books are a side thing? Why are you complaining? He obviously isn't broke.
@RedHood7 Do all people who write comics book are rich? No.
Are all doctors rich? If you say yes, you're biased - an yes, I can say this. The market isn't that simple. Ambition isn't picking a career that 'guarantees' money (doesnt exist at all). Ambition is wanting to become ever better, knowing you have the potential to be one of the best - if not the best - and working hard as fuck to earn your place at the top, no matter the career.
Is this why feminism came about so women like you can make your own money and not depend on a man to support you financially? This is not 1950 anymore. Get over it.
@longbeach225 I don't understand your comment, no logic at all with what we're talking...
You said "Is this bad to want to be with a stable man and not someone who always have money problem?
You can be friends with someone like you but can't be in a relationship. Do you know how stressful it's to be with someone who never have money?"
And I said "Is this why feminism came about so women like you can make your own money and not depend on a man to support you financially? This is not 1950 anymore. Get over it."
Basically what I'm saying do not depend on a man to take of you. This is not 1950, work for your own money. Feminism has done this for women so you can make your own money. That is what I'm saying. You basically asking to have a man financially support you.
@longbeach225 Yes it's what I said. So? Guys want to be provider (make them feel manlier) and I want a guys who have a stable work cause mine is not stable at all and surely will not be. I don't have any degree or things like that.
It's not the 50s anymore? Then why do the women do all the cleaning in the house and the man just lay in the couch watching tv?
I don't know where are you from but I am sure you are from a country where most women are sluts.
Four words: I don't believe you.
"I have been having sex with a different woman each day this week. I have also had sex with 2 different women on the same day". I call BS! lol
Too bad I'm a self proclaimed nice guy...
Would it work in a crickerville?
I'm bad at being the nice boy?
You are right on here. Good take.
Bad boy won the girls
Nice guy won our hearts..
Women are perverted and disgusting
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