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Why I Have "High Expectations" When it Comes to Men (Page 4)
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I have no problem doing any of those things. But why are you entitled to it?
I'm not entitled... but I hope it happens
I don't understand all the butt-hurt triggered men here either...
These weren't even that bad.
Ikr.. lol
The issue is not that men do not want to do those things, but it is that many radical feminists have called men misogynists for doing those things and women can't have it both ways. I prefer that type of relationship but gender roles have changed and it can be confusing at times what is expected. She may expect those things but a lot of women say that only a misogynist man would do that.
Here come the feminazis.
@bobbyxx you're guna be single for awhile
Nothing wrong with that but its not just about what you expect of course
I didn't say expect once... I used "hope" for a reason
oh quite right apoligies there, difficult to find all of your likes id say but its not anything bad at all to hope you find that ideal partner
Sorry if I got defensive. People have been coming at me with that accusation haha. Thanks! You too
Sorry to you for reading it wrong. all cool and you seem a decent person hope you find someone nice
you DID say "expect" actually. it's in the freaking title lol
"Why I Have "High Expectations" When it Comes to Men"
@Puppylove94
you DID say "expect" actually. it's in the freaking title lol
"Why I Have "High Expectations" When it Comes to Men"
@feminismisnarcissism it's in questiations because that's what people (like you) accuse me of... everyone always saying I have high expectations because I hope for these little, and apparently sexist, gestures.
*quotations
the question is in inverted coms though to be fair?
Thats why you will be single 4ever girl, GG.
Why do you say that?
Cause your dream guy is just a "dream" that guy doesn't exist on earth lmao.
I've had guys that care about me so that. I agree I thought my expectations were high which is why I let the last guy I dated treat me way less than I deserved, didn't do any of those things and didn't like me as much as I liked him. Look at the other comments- it does exist.
Do that**
Nahh they are just ass lickers who try to be seen cute to you :D What do you think they will do if you marry one of them after? They won't give a damn about you, they will watch football all day and they will look for other women.. they are just smart asses who wants to get ya.
Well then what is your advice for finding a guy who actually cares?
Hmm maybe we can say.. these shy guys? The ones who aren't brave enough to approach and speak with you, they are the true lovers I don't think they will cheat cause they are not that good with chicks most of the time. You should find ''good guys'' who are serious, who don't talk much and have no a lot of girl friends around them.. but if you go to an alpha he will make u cry :D
Okay well I went on a date with a shy guy a few months ago. He didn't do any of the things above, he's my age, and he told me he really liked me before he went on vacation and I haven't heard from him since... I don't know
As a rule of thumb I've found that the guys that do those things I mentioned, tend to have truer intentions
Well he isn't a shy guy then lol. Shy guys are cowards/weaks who can't say they like u, can't make the first move etc. He propably wasn't interested in u anymore so he left you, or he found someone else there. I have shy mates who have trouble with approaching women some got married and they are loyal to their wives, they care a lot about them and their family.
Maybe these kind of guys u mentioned exist but you can't find someone who carries all of these "abilities" He might be handsome but an idiot? Or maybe He will care about you but He won't pick you up? Thats not possible to find a guy who carries all in one.
No he is shy lol never had a girlfriend before. He told me through text because I basically asked are you into me or not and he said he really liked me. He didn't meet anyone new cause I follow him on snap... he's always just hanging out with his buddies.
These abilities aren't that difficult to find lol a lot of guys do these on a typical date... it's really not like I'm asking them to get o their hands and knees or anything
I don't think your requirements are too high, i just really dislike chivalry, i do not support it because it is sexist and old fashioned, and also irrelevant in today's society. It's 2016 not 1935.
chivalry is the hubris of the covert feminist, it's code for:
"GIMME GIMME GIMME, but just the assets please, hold the liabilities of equality."
1 & 3 kinda prove that you mostly just care about yourself.
I don't tho.
Really, cuz 1 & 3 are all you you you.
Your feelings > his feelings
Your ego > his self respect
Make him be vulnerable instead of you
I agree with this, imagine dating a man with similar but gender appropriate expectations.
@Puppylove94 How would you enjoy dating a man who expects sex from you because he took you on a date? Or a man who gave little to no thought to your vulnerability and fears, taking you to a strange, secluded, dark place the first time you meet? How would you feel about dating a man who places women on a pedestal, with so little self respect he can't even demand that the woman he dates treat him with the same respect he knows she demands of him?
@Jager66 I would think that he doesn't like me that much and I'd stop seeing him. These things I expect in dayingcnow are all from experience. The guys who have really treated me right and liked me have done them while the guys that don't care that much, haven't.
"The guys who have really treated me right"
That's not treating you right though... It's being spineless at worst and putting you on a pedestal at best. To each their own I guess, if it makes you happy then so be it.
That is typical of most women.
An what do you do for men? Besides nothing... or whenever you feel your ready to blow him
Worst 60 seconds of my life
Why?
If you swapped the roles and it was girls paying for guys etc there would be a hue uproar
Huge
Because the guy should want to pay if he genuinely likes you
The girl should pay if she genuinely likes him
Nope that shows shexisnt interested in him. How much experience do you even have with this stuff? "Lmao you're 16.
I'm gonna ignore that age comment because it just shows that you're out of your depth. But you seriously believe that he has to pay because he has a dick, because that's what separates them
It's really not though. I said those points out of experience... as a 16 year old there is no way you've fully experienced the dating world.
No you aren't listening. Because you're ignorant. If I'd have agreed with you, you wouldn't have said lmao you're only 16
True (btw you never said that lol) but still that doesn't take away from the fact that I wouldn't listen to your criticism when it corms to dating either way. How many dates have you been on?
*comes
I don't really count but lots
Dear Touchmehxx, I support you. I think you are not better or worst depending on your age or how many experiences have you had. I think you have very good feelings and a man can be very happy with a girl like you. I wish you luck in your love life, a good boy for a good girl!
@marckbcn aw thanks
The problem with dating for me is that it's soooo surrounded around what women want.
What do you want
I would do a date that required little to no money until I'm committed to her. If she isn't satisfied with a picnic at the beach or coffee, then she's too high maintenance. I barely know her, she doesn't deserve expensive meals.
Completely agree
very understandable! Tbh, thats not that high! Your fine to want those things
only to a simp... don't be a simp @Asingh
I'm pretty sure that my expectations are higher than yours, lul.
What do you mean?
This take could've just been three words. "Because I can."
Cool story bro
Touche...
Great, now but people call me unreasonable when I expect the reverse when it comes to me. :/
girls dont approach cause they are afraid of being rejected.
False
nope, its true, girls cannot handle rejection as well as guys can.
@alphadoggystyle 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
That is because they are so self entitled and spoilt bitches.
Those expectations aren't high though lmao
Knock knock, the 21st century is here.
This is me with the ladies. Outstanding summary.
kind of forgetting the "must be tall and good looking" part.
uhhh okay lmao. that has nothing to do with my take
Good take
Thanks 😊
If no problem with religion...