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"that when a guy is too good to be true, he most likely is"
Yep, guys will lower their standards for casual sex so women who are in a league below them can have him, for one night... and women are very susceptible to the halo effect (interpreting everything about him as positive/cute because he's hot).
... or he could be prince charming... but we all know that's not nearly as likely.
Sorry you had to go through that but this experience doesn't make all her guys assholes nor are all ugly women/guys inherently nice.
I went through something like this recently where I met a girl who was downright beautiful and on top of it had a lot in common with me but I was taking it slow and being cautious as she just got out of a long relationship. Yet I still got dragged along, led on, and then ditched after we had sex.
While it did hurt, generalizing all attractive women as bitchy or bad doesn't help anything.
I'm in a long term relationship with the 'hot guy', if he didn't treat you right that's unfortunate. But don't presume the way you were treated will be the same for everyone else. What you were dating was a player who also happened to be hot. Average guys play around with average women, ugly guys play around with ugly women.
I had a friend in college who was average looking at best and he cheated on his girlfriend pretty much once a week with a different girl each week. I think the moral of this story should really be that when you're in any circumstance (college, being "hot") where the availability of sex is high the likelihood of monogamy is low.
Most girls forget that there is "before sex guy" and after sex guy"... just like before relationship girl and after relationship girl.
The before person will say and do anything to get you to believe they are something they are not, just to get what they want.
The after person is the true colors of the person.
Most "hot" guys live in the same world as the average to hot looking female... they get to pick and choose partners. They have an abundance of people doing shit for them and fighting for their attention... the difference is that women are so used to this that they take it for granted and often don't realize there is any such different world... men who get this attention on the other hand, become assholes because they know it is uncommon and that they have an upper hand against a female dominated game. They use this to their advantage because they know women will fall for it.
It had nothing to do with him bwing hot, apart from having a lot of options but it had everything to do with not being honest and saying he's dating others, although you should have assumed that. I'll stick to guys I find attractive and then figure out if they are assholes later. :)
This isn't a universal rule, but something to keep in mind. As you are well aware, attractive guys have options. Many have no interest in commitment, especially around college age. No girl is going to change what we are.
Doesn't mean he shouldn't have been honest, but it is something girls should remember.
A lot of men do actually
I don't think it's about being hot, but by whether he is an asshole or not.
could you answer my question
Same.
Exactly
I fully agree.
So it's time to date an ugly guy? DAMNNN, what a time to be alive. Ugly guys will prevail!
No they won't. It will be the typical song and dance, where she gets ran through by the whole football team, and then she wonders why none of them all calling them except for late night drunken booty calls.
Then ugly mofos like yourself get the luxury of listening to them cry on your shoulders and complain that "all guys are assholes." Try to ignore the cock stench coming from her breath.
@FullOfMyself Who said I was ugly? Also why are you so bitter dude, ugly guy steal your girl or something?
My fault, when you're were saying "what a time to be alive," I thought you were reveling in the fact that you're ugly.
Not bitter. It's just fun being crass.
@FullOfMyself No I was indeed being sarcastic
Thats typical for a good looking college guy. Not all good looking guys aspire to be players though. And I can attest to that because I have known a few.
I kind of agree with redeyemindtricks in that you shouldn't have kept quiet. When you saw him in the car with that girl, that was your chance to call his bluff and completely humiliate him. Ruining his date in the process. Can't say he wouldn't have deserved it.
There is a difference between the very hot and the very attractive guys (same principle for very sexy and very attractive girls).
Once you figured that difference you know who to be interested in - since the very hot guys (or very sexy girls) are usually the ones who are good at playing the field.
I was gonna exclaim "yes!! Date me instead!!" But I read the girls responses. I don't think you could convince them not to date hot guys even if a scientific study proved 100% of hot guys were assholes.
So, while I'm attractive, I'm not "the hot guy"... but this post is bullshit. I know as many unattractive "players" as I do attractive. This might as well say "Why to not date guys" for all the sweeping generalizations here.
um just because one hot guy blew you off doesn't mean all hot guys are bad... you can't really generalize but do what you want just don't push it on everyone.
Exactly!
I kinda get what u mean. Why not reward the good guy who is charming, nice and confident though?
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Um. Not just hot guys. ALL MALES ARE NASTY PLAYERS. all they want is sex. If they are sureounded by a ton of girls , they will try to get all of them in bed at the same time without the other girls finding out. Guys don't give a shit about a girls feelings. They don't fall in love with girls. They only like boobs and sex. Its really sad and im glas i turned lesbian. Girls actually have feelings and love people deeply, not just their a**
So immature ;)
this is so damn true- all men are pathetic stupid pigs
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Between the ages of 18 and 24. Yup. Not surprised.
I thought this was going to be a he was just acting nice to me but turned out to be gay in the end story. Oh well, just because this happened to you with one hot guy it doesn't mean that all hot guys are like that.
My mom always told me to never date a good looking guy, because he's considered a stranger. He belongs to every girl, every girl wants him and he knows it. Go for the ones that are below average or average you're sure to be happier with them.
This was either written by a dude with a girl account or by a girl who would rather spend her life with a vibrator only.
And the ultimate reason you should never date a hot guy.
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