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Why Don't Guys Want to Pay for the First Date Anymore? (Page 5)
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The ladies and feminists are going to literally not even read this. Seriously... there is something about women on these sites that they simply only comment on things they agree with... they cannot debate.
A few of them did comment yes.
You won't find many coming on here and disagreeing? Why? because they know they are wrong/hypocritical... but they only listen to things they want to. Women seem to do this far more, espeically on this site.
Mhmmmm. I noticed them downvotig so they obviously saw. Oh well.
Yes.. but they didn't comment to argue with logic? Nope... debating for them is like poison to their brain. They just want to live in their shell of ''I'm right''.
I'm really hoping more girls see this. They need to
They will probably.
I love it.
Finally, someone who gets it.
Thanks :)
You don't get crap.
@yotes-of-472 thanks babe.
Times are changing and more men are thinking the ladies should start contributing to this "chivalry" thing as much as he is. It's not just the guys job anymore
Not sure about the guys you hang with but the ones i deal with always ask to pay and it's me who suggests we go halfs, besides you should have said "SOME" because not all guys refuse to pay, there are some who know how to treat a girl.
I know it's not all. The title was merely clickbait.
So paying for a "girl" is how you treat a girl... spoiled much? How do you treat a guy?
If the guy you are talking to doesn't want to pay, find a different guy who will. It is a competition, so differentiate between the winners and losers.
The flip side advice for guys is, if a girl doesn't want to have sex right away, find a different girl who will. It is a competition, so differentiate between the winners and losers.
Prostitution by very definition! Sad really.
that's not the way to solve that problem.
@amphet11
"Prostitution by very definition!"
No different than marriage.
Savage 😂
Yeah marriage in most cases is prostitution, human monogamy was only created so beta males could get sex and low value women could get commitment and security.
@amphet11
There is no such thing as human monogamy. Only a tiny fraction of humans are lifetime monogamous.
Polygamy was banned in Europe by the Catholic Church in order to reduce bloodshed in children of different mothers fighting over titles (and land) of their fathers. From that time forward, the Church decreed that only "legitimate" children could inherit. The children of mistresses could not (I am descended from the mistress of a King of England).
"Good woman found supporting true equality. I repeat. Good woman found supporting true equality. Over"
Not only that if we want to pay for it we can just skip dating all together and just go to Backpage. The whole point of dating is try to get sex for free if possible.
I have no problem paying for the first date. In my mind supply and demand comes into play here. She finds a dozen guys attractive enough for her to date. Why should she date someone who wants to go Dutch when half of the desirable guys will pay?
well said, its unreal how many women feel they're entitled to free shits. If you want equality, you get it yourself because that's what men has to do.
I'll pay for a first date
I wasn't telling you not to. :) I was just going off the responses I received on my question.
i know, i just felt like posting that lol
Lol, girls will bring up both sex are equal when it benefits them but when being a female has an advantage, they will forget about the whole equality thing and start playing "you are not a gentleman" game.
That's what I said in the myTake, no?
Then that means I agree, because that is exactly what I perceive this situation.
Good points. "With great power comes great responsibility". Uncle Ben, Spiderman.
Maybe they are a bit tired of all this feme-this and feme-that stuff?
Don't you think women should pay for everything the first 15 years of the relationship then we start splitting the expenses you know for us truly to have equal rights.
Like I keep saying:
Because apparently paying for something that you INVITED THEM to is just too difficult these days
Hey, you can pay for her if you want. I was only expressing my opinion and you're free to disagree. Nobody said you have to listen to me lol. If a guy wants to pay then that's on him. :) If a guy wants to pay for me I'd be greatful but I wouldn't expect it from him.
It's more like if I inite someone and make plans, I'd be a pretty bad hist if I said "oh by the way, you're cobering yourselfm" it's just the way I was raised. Pepole seriously make an issue out ofnthis, citing equality and what not, when really it just comes down to being a good host
Hit the nail on the head there, great take.
Thank you 😊
I prefer to do it, just the way I was raised, feels unnatural to not do it.
That's good I wasn't telling you not to
I know
And know for everyone's enjoyment.
https://youtu.be/b9uMe_TJMkA
I have no problem with paying for a first date, but understand that we'll be going out for drinks and snacks. Big formal meals are stupid for a first date.
Good take, you sound really nice and understanding. That's a nice personality trait for a woman to have.
I wouldn't have a problem with always paying for you. :)
i had to like this , great take
Thanks!