No She Didn't Put You in the Friendzone, You Put Yourself There (Page 2)

[awesometjgreen]

Most guys like me just get confused on when we should say something. There's a girl I fancy at work but would me just randomly going up to her and asking for a date really work? Or would that just come off as creepy? I think you all can guess which one

[sasukeuchiha7]

Good points, I had this problem. I had a really big crush on my friend but she rejected me. Then it was awkward for a while. After a while I told her that I couldn't be friends cause it hurt too much. She was sad about it but said okay. But then it struck me what she really meant to me. We reconciled and now are best friends!
Sometimes you do get special friendships from the friendzone.

[MarkTheory]

I feel more times than not you put yourself there. I had to cut ties with a girl yesterday because even though I made my intentions clear, I realized she's just talking to me because she likes the attention and thinks I'm just gonna be an orbiter. Why do girls do this? It's toxic to you and to the guy.

[Smegskull]

I've always seen the friend zone as being a consequence of people never giving a straight answer ("I'm focusing on my career right now" or "maybe some other time") leaving "hope" open by never outright saying no so you don't move on but never saying yes so you don't move forward.

[RolandCuthbert]

To get out of the friendzone, the answer is simple.

Leave.

[Anonymous]

I've had this happen she wanted to "keep the friendship" to which I stupidly agreed. Haven't heard a word since. Weirdly she's kept me on social medias, is it worth removing her? Or is that showing an emotional response?

[Thatsamazing]

There's some truth here, but the notion that guys *always* put themselves in the friendzone is bullshit, sorry. As though everything in romance is a one-way street.

Nope.

[Gazzoo]

“Friend Zone” relegates you to “Emotional Tampon” duty. By all means, avoid it at your peril.

[yeeeeeeeet]

If people unironically use the term friendzone, they're probably basic and relying on luck to find them a date anyway 🤷‍♂️ dont @ me

[Pejtu]

Yes she did
Since the moment she saw ur face and height
tall handsome - potential boyfriend , fuckboi
short ugly - friendzone

[Ninakaran]

A guy liked me and I didn't like him back, I ended the friendship. He moved on and found a girlfriend. I did the right thing.

[TheSpartan]

Simply don’t be friends with her if she friendzones you lol

[katlima]

While partially this is true. Some women do keep a "backup boyfriend" that they keep in the friendzone and trade up to a better backup when time comes.

[capncool]

I did mention that, and again the "backup boyfriend" is the one who's ultimately putting himself in that situation because he's allowing himself to be played.

[Liam_Hayden]

Nope. She puts you there. You decide if you want to stay or blow her off.

[John_Doesnt]

Some women put themselves in the friendzone by being an icy-bitch when guys approach her.

[Anonymous]

Or she just play along because she knows he has a crush on her to feed her ego then friendzone him later. I know what the girl who has her ego fed feels like because someone had a crush on me and I like it. I just friendzoned her later on.

[Anonymous]

you hear this guys

GIRLS DO NOT FRIENDZONE, YOU DO

she will try and tell you, she does, but, its ALWAYS YOU

[Anonymous]

That's because men typically do all the heavy lifting in dating

[Anonymous]

Being inexperienced and cllumsy,
Pickingthe girl with different intentions than you.

[Opinion Owner]

Good take

[anametouse]

Lolololololololo you act like social interactions are that simple