Some men absolutely have huge counts. I'm one of them. But i don't do that well on tinder. I don't even bother with it. The girls have huge egos where they put down and block a dude just to feed the fake self esteem they have. Any girl actually hooking up off tinder is a hoe. GUARANTEED! Every girl i ever met off tinder fucked the first time we met and most had boyfriends. They all ho bags on there for real or just getting likes with no intention of ever meeting a man.
Well. That was a long expertise. Can I deduct from it that in a society where sex outside of a marriage would lead to death penalty would lead to a lower number of se less men under 30 years? So modern liberal society is harmful for the male sex.
Uhh, I think what I was saying is that instead of a few hot guys competing for all the girls, it’s actually a lot of guys all wanting all the same girls but the girls choosing men highly specifically.
The point here is that guys swiped on both her profiles, and the ugly profile got more matches suggesting that men are swiping indiscriminately.
That explains how women get so many likes. Point is that’s not meaningful because they’re all getting liked by all the same men, which is what you’d expect.
It serves as an ego boost to girls, but it shouldn’t because the swipes from men are nearly meaningless.
Now, girls, on the other hand, swipe on guys less frequently. And since we know hot guys aren’t getting tons of matches, or not as many as I thought, then it becomes clear that the notion of a few guys getting all the girls is a facade created by the illusion of women drowning in hot men.
In reality it’s just all he men like her profile, and she likes about 25% of the hot guys back and about 1-7% of the average guys back. And there isn’t a whole lot of overlap between who girls find hot or else hot guys would have a match rate well beyond 25%.
@No_Archons Actually it’s having no effect. That’s the hilarious point. Men *think* it’s harming them — but the fact is they were screwed from the beginning. They just didn’t realize it.
Tinder doesn’t make women more selective, it just exposes the selectivity that was always there to begin with.
And that’s the whole point. It’s actually kind of a useless app for both men and women.
Why is it useless? Because the same girls that will end up liking you on the app are the same girls that would end up liking you IRL. And vice versa.
So anyone who has luck on Tinder should have an equally good chance of having luck IRL. And conversely those who don’t have luck IRL have an equally bad chance of luck on the app.
You must understand that the 20/80 rule does not apply universally everywhere. This is just one experiment. More are needed to draw a definite conclusion.
The truth is that men love women but women do not love men. So in effect women are swarmed by likes and matches while men have a serious deficiency in those. This proves, that 80% of men do love women but only 20% of women love men.
It's much simpler to say that women do not love men.
What a joke. I myself would get practically zero messages regardless. Why is it only men who talk to women on dating sites, why not the other way around?
I'm not sure about other women, but I'm really nervous to message first. I have gathered the confidence a few times and messaged first but it was scary, haha.
@Kas19 I really wonder how many women actually get messaged by guys. Like Hey baby mua... and they get 10,000 messages like that. Assuming they are real. Makes me wonder if they are real. Ever use PhotoTracker Lite? I just right click and realize that many womens accounts are fake. and I mean many! POF almost never gets rid of them.
I was talking ti this girl on pof because she put all over her account that she got STD's and pof deleted her in the middle of my conversation with her AND like I said, I reported like 20 other fake accounts that are probably still up.
@Kas19 I just had a thought. Maybe girls like you are getting messaged on POF too much because guys figure that they have to contact 10,000 girl in order to get messaged back by one who is real.
So, you've confirmed that Tinder is a cesspool. I hope you don't think that such an obvious observation indicates you should get a PHD in stats or anything. :)
the simple truth is that she's not even ugly when trying... an ugly 300lb woman will get 50 times the responses that your average guy gets... of course this simple truth being pointed out pisses certain women off
Easy. If they guy looks at her as less pretty than he will put his moves on her. The guy will think he can score sex with her easier. Same reason why you will see a guy make a girl feel ugly before trying to hook up. It is one of the many underhanded dirty tactics some guys use.
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Sometimes pretty chicks on tinder you see just some fake account so guys actually smart these days lol
Some men absolutely have huge counts. I'm one of them. But i don't do that well on tinder. I don't even bother with it. The girls have huge egos where they put down and block a dude just to feed the fake self esteem they have. Any girl actually hooking up off tinder is a hoe. GUARANTEED! Every girl i ever met off tinder fucked the first time we met and most had boyfriends. They all ho bags on there for real or just getting likes with no intention of ever meeting a man.
Well. That was a long expertise. Can I deduct from it that in a society where sex outside of a marriage would lead to death penalty would lead to a lower number of se less men under 30 years? So modern liberal society is harmful for the male sex.
Uhh, I think what I was saying is that instead of a few hot guys competing for all the girls, it’s actually a lot of guys all wanting all the same girls but the girls choosing men highly specifically.
The point here is that guys swiped on both her profiles, and the ugly profile got more matches suggesting that men are swiping indiscriminately.
That explains how women get so many likes. Point is that’s not meaningful because they’re all getting liked by all the same men, which is what you’d expect.
It serves as an ego boost to girls, but it shouldn’t because the swipes from men are nearly meaningless.
Now, girls, on the other hand, swipe on guys less frequently. And since we know hot guys aren’t getting tons of matches, or not as many as I thought, then it becomes clear that the notion of a few guys getting all the girls is a facade created by the illusion of women drowning in hot men.
In reality it’s just all he men like her profile, and she likes about 25% of the hot guys back and about 1-7% of the average guys back. And there isn’t a whole lot of overlap between who girls find hot or else hot guys would have a match rate well beyond 25%.
Modern liberal society is harmful to the male sex, correct
@No_Archons Trumptards blame the liberal boogeyman (or boogeywoman) for everything. Sadly for them, it's a schizophrenic delusion :(
The Trumptarded community is the saddest community on planet Earth.
Google frankfurt school, kalergi plan, cultural marxism and u may understand whats going on
Sure the plan of the Robert Miller from Uno is coming true.
@No_Archons Actually it’s having no effect. That’s the hilarious point. Men *think* it’s harming them — but the fact is they were screwed from the beginning. They just didn’t realize it.
Tinder doesn’t make women more selective, it just exposes the selectivity that was always there to begin with.
And that’s the whole point. It’s actually kind of a useless app for both men and women.
Why is it useless? Because the same girls that will end up liking you on the app are the same girls that would end up liking you IRL. And vice versa.
So anyone who has luck on Tinder should have an equally good chance of having luck IRL. And conversely those who don’t have luck IRL have an equally bad chance of luck on the app.
Sure. But if women have to decide for 1 man irl the other men have still the chance of getting a single woman.
Tinder is about sex, not about getting to know someone.
shallow
@manmeat, and true.
@manmeat what’s wrong with you man. Are you opposed to that?
@Robertcw I am.
Suggestions on where to get to know someone? Tinder is no good as you mentioned
Real life?
Tried real life doesn't work well. But i guess thats the best place
nope if that rocks peoples boat
@themomo84
go out and do stuff and u will meet people that are like u and hit it off
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You must understand that the 20/80 rule does not apply universally everywhere. This is just one experiment. More are needed to draw a definite conclusion.
The truth is that men love women but women do not love men.
So in effect women are swarmed by likes and matches while men have a serious deficiency in those. This proves, that 80% of men do love women but only 20% of women love men.
It's much simpler to say that women do not love men.
What a joke. I myself would get practically zero messages regardless. Why is it only men who talk to women on dating sites, why not the other way around?
I'm not sure about other women, but I'm really nervous to message first. I have gathered the confidence a few times and messaged first but it was scary, haha.
@Kas19 I really wonder how many women actually get messaged by guys. Like Hey baby mua... and they get 10,000 messages like that. Assuming they are real. Makes me wonder if they are real. Ever use PhotoTracker Lite? I just right click and realize that many womens accounts are fake. and I mean many! POF almost never gets rid of them.
I was talking ti this girl on pof because she put all over her account that she got STD's and pof deleted her in the middle of my conversation with her AND like I said, I reported like 20 other fake accounts that are probably still up.
@sean1234 All of the accounts I saw were real, not sure about the rest. I think women are more likely to have fake profiles. But damn, that is crazy.
@Kas19 I just had a thought. Maybe girls like you are getting messaged on POF too much because guys figure that they have to contact 10,000 girl in order to get messaged back by one who is real.
@sean1234 Possibly.
So, you've confirmed that Tinder is a cesspool. I hope you don't think that such an obvious observation indicates you should get a PHD in stats or anything. :)
I don't know anything about online dating. Never used it. I found my partner in real life. I never had casual sex. Only Sex with him and no one else.
It doesn't matter to me. Even if it were true and I am not in the 20% of guys, that still leaves 100's of millions of women available.
Brah, it’s just an expression to indicate that the handsome guys generally get any girl they want...
It’s not a taking actual numbers lol
God look how many desperate pathetic men are out their it’s so god damn embarrassing. When will men learn not to be such simps
She's not ugly in that picture though. She just looks silly
Yeah. But it’s hard for any girl to be ugly.
You see "ugly" profile and "pretty" profile.
I see "sense of humour" profile and "average girl trying too hard to look pretty" profile.
the simple truth is that she's not even ugly when trying... an ugly 300lb woman will get 50 times the responses that your average guy gets... of course this simple truth being pointed out pisses certain women off
I think the reason is cuz the uglier the women the more vulnerable of a target
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Easy. If they guy looks at her as less pretty than he will put his moves on her. The guy will think he can score sex with her easier. Same reason why you will see a guy make a girl feel ugly before trying to hook up.
It is one of the many underhanded dirty tactics some guys use.
Okay so which one is where she tries to look her best
The experiement fails because she was pretty regardless. He lipstick was messed up, but so what? It's not her lipstick that I'd be after.
She does realise that most people will look at obviously dodgy profiles as trolling right?
Many guys swipe right hoping to catch more than stopping to think about swiping, so whether the ugly girl got more matches or not is moot
I put myself on Tinder 6 months ago. Only 1 swipe right.