he was very shy and nervous-- he'd tremble when he spoke and rarely made eye contact with me--it melted my heart.
if you're having trouble meeting people, you could aways take some sort of a class (e.g., art, exercise, dance) or volunteer at an animal shelter (I assume you like cats :P)
He never really asked me out. The relationship just sort of happened. We were in the dreaded friend zone, he kissed me, then he came back to my house the next day with a flower and asked if I would be his girlfriend. That really takes a lot of guts.
i met him through a random encounter at a gyro place. we talked for a bit and exchanged numbers. text messages ensued. after a few exchanges, he later asked me out via text.
He didn't, I was at his place out the front waiting for my dad to come and get me, then he kissed me :P (not sure if he asked if he could though, feeling kinda bad for not remembering)
Before or after, her friend hits on me and I get hit with everything at hand & ordered for as well as with words & stuff lol - happens w/o fail in any relationship with me - fate & history lol
One day after school, I had to walk my friend to the bus stop and so I told him I had to go & my friend starts walking & I kinda wanted to give him a hug but I didnt, so I started walking away & he calls me & I go back to him & he's all awkward and nervous & I new it was coming, he's like "so.. do you want to make this official" hahah it was so awkward honestly. He's a geek. I love him.
Hmm we had met the day before at a work event and the next day he texted me because he and some friends were getting together. I went over and then after that we just kept hanging out for a few weeks and eventually started dating. It wasn't like "will you go out with me?" though.
We talked a Couple times, I got his number...we never stopped talking. It was just super obvious. He pretty much asked what day I wanted to start counting our "relationship" on. And it's only gotten better :)
I was walking home alone and he decided to cycle next to me to keep me company and protect me on my way home (I'd met him that day - he's my kickboxing instructor so he wasn't a random stranger). We talked non stop and I didn't want the conversation to end when I got home. Then I added him on Facebook and he added me a week later when he realised who I was. He randomly asked me out for a walk one day and I was overjoyed but he says he wasn't interested in me at that time (I think he had just finished his ex though!). Then another day, I went to his and we cuddled for like 8 hours and he was so close to my face but he wouldn't kiss me! So before I had to leave, I lay next to him and kissed him on the lips without thinking because the urge was so strong. He kissed me back and we didn't stop kissing. Then the next day he came to mine and we lay there and I said, "Soooo, are you mine?" and he said, "yeah, are you mine?" and I said yes, so then it was official.
14 months later, we're still going strong and it turns out we're soul mates and like twins. He's my best friend and I can see us being together for a lifetime!
Yeah, it was the best start to a relationship I've had and even heard of haha. I loved it all. It's not often you meet someone in person and develop the relationship in person.
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he was very shy and nervous-- he'd tremble when he spoke and rarely made eye contact with me--it melted my heart.
if you're having trouble meeting people, you could aways take some sort of a class (e.g., art, exercise, dance) or volunteer at an animal shelter (I assume you like cats :P)
nice.. :)
He never really asked me out. The relationship just sort of happened. We were in the dreaded friend zone, he kissed me, then he came back to my house the next day with a flower and asked if I would be his girlfriend. That really takes a lot of guts.
That's sweet!
Yeah :) I felt like I was in a cheesy rom-com, haha.
i met him through a random encounter at a gyro place. we talked for a bit and exchanged numbers. text messages ensued. after a few exchanges, he later asked me out via text.
He didn't, I was at his place out the front waiting for my dad to come and get me, then he kissed me :P (not sure if he asked if he could though, feeling kinda bad for not remembering)
My room mate started hitting on him and she was like soooo ya`ll aren't even really dating right? He asked me out when she said that.
Lol.
Before or after, her friend hits on me and I get hit with everything at hand & ordered for as well as with words & stuff lol - happens w/o fail in any relationship with me - fate & history lol
One day after school, I had to walk my friend to the bus stop and so I told him I had to go & my friend starts walking & I kinda wanted to give him a hug but I didnt, so I started walking away & he calls me & I go back to him & he's all awkward and nervous & I new it was coming, he's like "so.. do you want to make this official" hahah it was so awkward honestly. He's a geek. I love him.
would it had made a difference if he was more confident when he said that?
yeah I probably wouldn't have thought it was as cute how awkward he was
would you still have said yes?
yes haha
Hmm we had met the day before at a work event and the next day he texted me because he and some friends were getting together. I went over and then after that we just kept hanging out for a few weeks and eventually started dating. It wasn't like "will you go out with me?" though.
strive for the girl u <3 catty
*give you moral support from Singapore
haha thanks cutie :)
*give you a hugz and a kiss
*blushes*
We talked a Couple times, I got his number...we never stopped talking. It was just super obvious. He pretty much asked what day I wanted to start counting our "relationship" on. And it's only gotten better :)
My current boyfriend just kissed me and said 'will you go out with me'
was he confident? nervous?
Well when he asked he actually seemed confident but after he told me he was heaps nervous although he was pretty sure that I would say yes
He didn't... on our "3 months" he said happy anniversary that's when I found out we were actually together. but worked out (mostly)
We were best mates for a year and then one day he kissed me. Then BOOM relationship. Now we're 2 years on.
I asked her and she said yes.
Lieke if you cri every tim
We were hanging out and start making out and by the end of the night he's like "sooo.. did you wanna be my girlfriend?" Or something like that lol
Well this is awkward - I asked my boyfriend out.
What did you say to him?
GOOD SHIT
I was walking home alone and he decided to cycle next to me to keep me company and protect me on my way home (I'd met him that day - he's my kickboxing instructor so he wasn't a random stranger). We talked non stop and I didn't want the conversation to end when I got home. Then I added him on Facebook and he added me a week later when he realised who I was. He randomly asked me out for a walk one day and I was overjoyed but he says he wasn't interested in me at that time (I think he had just finished his ex though!). Then another day, I went to his and we cuddled for like 8 hours and he was so close to my face but he wouldn't kiss me! So before I had to leave, I lay next to him and kissed him on the lips without thinking because the urge was so strong. He kissed me back and we didn't stop kissing. Then the next day he came to mine and we lay there and I said, "Soooo, are you mine?" and he said, "yeah, are you mine?" and I said yes, so then it was official.
14 months later, we're still going strong and it turns out we're soul mates and like twins. He's my best friend and I can see us being together for a lifetime!
Wow that isprobably the hottest story well played. Dam I need to sort my shit out that is how I want to start my next relationship
Yeah, it was the best start to a relationship I've had and even heard of haha. I loved it all. It's not often you meet someone in person and develop the relationship in person.
And it's not often the female does all the work either!
He didn't :)
So how did it happen?
I asked him, in a text message, we've been together for 4½ years now :-)
Great anecdotes, very fun read
hate how us guys still have to initiate