Attraction is not a choice. You can't help what you like.
Not wanting to date Black guys doesn't make you a racist at all. Everyone has there preferences.
However referring to interracial dating as "Gross" Instead of just "Not my thing".
I could see why people would find that offensive.
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Nope there's nothing wrong with it. As for being racist, I think that that those with racial preferences when it comes to dating people with those preferences might not be a hardcore bigot like a skinhead, but I think that they do hold some animosity towards groups that they say they wouldn't date.
"As for being racist, I think that that those with racial preferences when it comes to dating people with those preferences might not be a hardcore bigot like a skinhead, but I think that they do hold some animosity towards groups that they say they wouldn't date."
So... I'm Asian and I've never dated another Asian, does that mean I have animosity towards my own people and neighbors?
I don't think your statement follows. I'm proud of my heritage and I have a very diverse group of friends (most of whom are Asian nationality), but I've never felt attracted to another Asian guy. It's not because I harbor any ill will towards them, it's just that there was no combo of physical and emotional attraction.
In all honesty, you were better off just saying no. Interracial dating is growing each day. I am a Mexican girl dating an Armenian guy. But yet again you like who you like but sometimes comments like saying interracial dating is gross may not have a good response back to you
honestly this offends me a bit because i love a black guy... but i understand that everyone is allowed their point of view the right to express it. (at the moment, the government is trying to change it)
@louistc Why do you only like white people? its even more weird actually disgusting you remind me of how Nazis used to speak of Jews during world war â…¡.
Hi, I am gabo from Africa-ghana. I think deep down you want it huh? You know you do, you so attracted to Koons like me that you hate been so attracted to us. One day you will get filled up it hole by a koon and you will enjoy, jejeje
I definatly think you are right i am a white male out of florida and i just hear about the white girls who get raped and abused by big black guys and actually a friend of mine dated a black guy and he was always being dirty an impolite and i think women should not be treated that way
This dumb black guy tried to play the race card when you weren't attracted to him? That's truly pathetic how they try to take advantage of girls by playing on serious matters like racism. If I met him I would knock his teeth in.
@Koldhearted How dare you say her comment was unintelligent. It's a legitimate question and just because it has racial connotations doesn't mean it should be avoided.
Gross I don't know, different strokes for different folks. By telling the black guy you don't date interacially, you triggered him into anger, so probably dodged a bullet. I'd stick to white guys.
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Attraction is not a choice. You can't help what you like.
Not wanting to date Black guys doesn't make you a racist at all. Everyone has there preferences.
However referring to interracial dating as "Gross" Instead of just "Not my thing".
I could see why people would find that offensive.
Nope there's nothing wrong with it. As for being racist, I think that that those with racial preferences when it comes to dating people with those preferences might not be a hardcore bigot like a skinhead, but I think that they do hold some animosity towards groups that they say they wouldn't date.
"As for being racist, I think that that those with racial preferences when it comes to dating people with those preferences might not be a hardcore bigot like a skinhead, but I think that they do hold some animosity towards groups that they say they wouldn't date."
So... I'm Asian and I've never dated another Asian, does that mean I have animosity towards my own people and neighbors?
I don't think your statement follows. I'm proud of my heritage and I have a very diverse group of friends (most of whom are Asian nationality), but I've never felt attracted to another Asian guy. It's not because I harbor any ill will towards them, it's just that there was no combo of physical and emotional attraction.
Well it may be something about your self that you don't value.
Hey, I don't really know why that's my case, but I can assure you it's not because I don't value myself.
In all honesty, you were better off just saying no. Interracial dating is growing each day. I am a Mexican girl dating an Armenian guy. But yet again you like who you like but sometimes comments like saying interracial dating is gross may not have a good response back to you
wtf is that? how can people be still narrow minded like that?
Interracial dating is not as gross as people who love marrying or having sex with their sisters/brothers or cousins.
"Does anyone thinks this question is bullshit"
"Noo way..its fucking gross like oh em gee" "Its gross like ew ew lol
I don't care about your opinion leave the bullshit talking outside of world -____- you didn't probably knew its 2014
call me an idiot again I'll report the abuse , just so we are clear...
honestly this offends me a bit because i love a black guy... but i understand that everyone is allowed their point of view the right to express it. (at the moment, the government is trying to change it)
You love a black guy?
Why? That's so weird
@louistc It's not that weird, you're just close minded.
GVT is trying what? That line should lunatic... is that your excuse to feel good about sleeping with black guys? blame the gvt? lol
@louistc Why do you only like white people? its even more weird actually disgusting you remind me of how Nazis used to speak of Jews during world war â…¡.
Depends on the race. I would have sex with pretty much any race but I would really only date white girls, Asian girls, and some Latinas.
Hi, I am gabo from Africa-ghana. I think deep down you want it huh? You know you do, you so attracted to Koons like me that you hate been so attracted to us. One day you will get filled up it hole by a koon and you will enjoy, jejeje
I definatly think you are right i am a white male out of florida and i just hear about the white girls who get raped and abused by big black guys and actually a friend of mine dated a black guy and he was always being dirty an impolite and i think women should not be treated that way
This dumb black guy tried to play the race card when you weren't attracted to him? That's truly pathetic how they try to take advantage of girls by playing on serious matters like racism. If I met him I would knock his teeth in.
no i dont think it is gross, though majority still date within their own race, it isn't uncommon. to each his own..everybody has their preference
This question is coming across as slightly racist from the poor wording.
Yeah I won't do it and I don't really hang out with people who are "into" it.
To each there own, so long as you don't impede on others, but I'm not the same way.
I am all for it.
<3 Asian wimmenz
Dude, we can open up slots for each other. 1 for you 1 for me!
No. I just mean I'll take a white girl and make a hole for you to take an Asian girl :) Or I'll take 10 and open up 10 holes :)
That's roughly what I was thinking yes :)
I get tired of arguing about it really :/.
There's a 99.9% chance this person is a troll anyway lol
I admit I'm new here but not a troll. I'm just asking an honest question and I want other's thoughts on it. I expect intelligent dialogue.
unintelligent comments don't warrant an intelligent response.
Huh?
that's directed at QA
@Koldhearted How dare you say her comment was unintelligent. It's a legitimate question and just because it has racial connotations doesn't mean it should be avoided.
I`ll be honest... Black guys with white girls always looks slutty we all think it.. few are brave enough to mention it.
Everyone isn't like you stop saying "we all" say instead of that "I think" idiot
@NOhope n** lover triggered lol
Gross I don't know, different strokes for different folks. By telling the black guy you don't date interacially, you triggered him into anger, so probably dodged a bullet. I'd stick to white guys.
What exactly is gross about it?
It just doesn't feel right to me. like in school I get pressured by friends to date interracially but I just can't do it.
But why? There has to be specific reasons why something makes you react so strongly.
She has preference for white guys. It's not wrong to be attracted to your own race
It's not wrong to be attracted to your own race, but it's extremely racist to imply that people of other races are gross.