Probably for the most part but drugs and parties is fun temporarily. You shouldn't do drugs to find girls. Long term: If you do drugs, you should find a girl that does drugs. Short term it doesn't matter. I'm 25 and I have an easier time because who are 19 talk like they're 19. So if you talked to 19s for 4 years, by the 5th you should be good at talking to 19s.
i normally do... i find 18-24 annoying, spoilt, still like kids.. but there will be an exception.. its like 1/1000000. normally i dont even bother to that age group at all. soz ! :))
Why join something stupid when you can clearly just look at it and say that it's stupid? Would you date someone who doesn't see how stupid these stupid things are? I sure would not.
No! Stick to who you are (: There is nothing more attractive than a man who knows what he wants and isn't out doing sketchy shit all the time. Mature guys are the way to go (: Dont change for anyone.
Don't feel you have to change yourself to fit in. It's refreshing to see a guy at 22 who is mature and there are women not girls, who would appreciate that.
Not all women want to date guys that party every weekend. Maturity and responsibility is great, it shows you've got your shit together. You might be pursuing the wrong "type" of girl, maybe the club girl isn't into that. Doesn't mean another girl won't be. You don't really have to venture out of a different age group either, just try branching out.
It depends on the kind of girl. I'm exactly the same, many girls said I'm boring, but frankly.. they're boring to me too. It's relative, and finding compatibility.
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Lol in some aspects im like you lol very mature and young im not into the clubbing drinking concert scene id rater go to a movie or take a walk so its a turrn of for me and girls with personalities like me. So keep up hope lol
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Some girls are into that partying and clubbing stuff, some girls aren't. I kind of know how you feel (I don't get drunk easily, I'm not interested in raves, & I don't do drugs). It depends on the individual.
I am interested to read what women will say here since this is really a girl question I can't really answer lol. Maybe try a cougar? Lol only problem with cougars are they are rare to find. =(
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Been there done that ;), relationship worked out fine got along real well till we realized our "life goals" arn't at the same time. (asking for kids)
Im 18 this year. And the reason why I choose a 29 years old guy as my bf is because he is mature! I really like his maturity. Its hard to find mature guys at your age.
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Why do you think many girls go after older guys? Because they are wiser and more mature. If we find a young guy who is very close to our age and also a mature guy, it would even be a plus.
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Probably for the most part but drugs and parties is fun temporarily. You shouldn't do drugs to find girls. Long term: If you do drugs, you should find a girl that does drugs. Short term it doesn't matter. I'm 25 and I have an easier time because who are 19 talk like they're 19. So if you talked to 19s for 4 years, by the 5th you should be good at talking to 19s.
i normally do... i find 18-24 annoying, spoilt, still like kids.. but there will be an exception.. its like 1/1000000. normally i dont even bother to that age group at all. soz ! :))
Why join something stupid when you can clearly just look at it and say that it's stupid? Would you date someone who doesn't see how stupid these stupid things are? I sure would not.
I agree. I'm called mature too for my age too. It's really not a big deal if we're not into making fools of ourselves. It's not fun, don't change.
No! Stick to who you are (: There is nothing more attractive than a man who knows what he wants and isn't out doing sketchy shit all the time. Mature guys are the way to go (: Dont change for anyone.
It's seen as boring by girls who are into that kind of thing - the girls you don't want anyway. You just have to find girls who aren't into that.
Don't feel you have to change yourself to fit in. It's refreshing to see a guy at 22 who is mature and there are women not girls, who would appreciate that.
what age group are you dating?
I would be happy to have a guy like you
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from 22
Not all women want to date guys that party every weekend. Maturity and responsibility is great, it shows you've got your shit together. You might be pursuing the wrong "type" of girl, maybe the club girl isn't into that. Doesn't mean another girl won't be. You don't really have to venture out of a different age group either, just try branching out.
any suggestions?
Im 22 too and have the same problem so I always date guys in thirteens or end of twenty !
thirteens year olds? i think you mean 30?
yeah sorry
I don't find that unattractive at all.
In fact, I love guys who are just like that.
However, it depends on the girl and the kind of relationship they're looking for.
Don't trade that wisdom for cheap companionship. The girls that see you as boring are probably the same ones that would've left you worse off.
It depends on the kind of girl. I'm exactly the same, many girls said I'm boring, but frankly.. they're boring to me too. It's relative, and finding compatibility.
Lol in some aspects im like you lol very mature and young im not into the clubbing drinking concert scene id rater go to a movie or take a walk so its a turrn of for me and girls with personalities like me. So keep up hope lol
Some girls are into that partying and clubbing stuff, some girls aren't.
I kind of know how you feel (I don't get drunk easily, I'm not interested in raves, & I don't do drugs).
It depends on the individual.
I am interested to read what women will say here since this is really a girl question I can't really answer lol. Maybe try a cougar? Lol only problem with cougars are they are rare to find. =(
Been there done that ;), relationship worked out fine got along real well till we realized our "life goals" arn't at the same time. (asking for kids)
Im 18 this year. And the reason why I choose a 29 years old guy as my bf is because he is mature! I really like his maturity. Its hard to find mature guys at your age.
Why do you think many girls go after older guys?
Because they are wiser and more mature.
If we find a young guy who is very close to our age and also a mature guy, it would even be a plus.
u sound boring as hell and uptight loosen up, join the crowd and have fun
No... be Disciplined, AND have some fun, like this guy:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Mdr_XwWApE
Not at all, I find it easier to talk to men who are more mature and have their stuff together.
I personally like it I've never been into the scene of many people my age