Reason 1: no woman can offer me anything i dont already have besides sex. Reason 2: If you're doing it because you're christian, thats stupid, there is nothing in the bible about that. and i don't date stupid people. as for other reasons, well i just haven't heard any good ones yet. Most of it is pseudoreligious garbage. Reason 3: I am a man and i have needs. Not wants, needs. As in, if you don't feed the beast, i will find someone who can, otherwise he will starve. Reason 4: I prefer women who are liberated, mentally, emotionally, sexually, and socially. And prudes are none of those things. Reason 5: I like a lot of people. Girls, guys, animals. I like some of them a lot. You want to know the only difference between those people and girls who are relationship material? The sex. Tell me one thing thats different between friendship and a relationship besides sex. Go ahead. Can you think of anything that isn't a pain in the ass?
Reason 1- Your justification has flaws in it already. If you weren't a self centered person you would realize that women in relationships are worth way more than sex and can offer a lot more than that. Girls can offer you a love like no other because it's from your soulmate, girls can turn a house into a home, she can offer you a family, and romantic gestures. But hey if you'd rather get all these from a family member that's up to you buddy.
Reason 2- Obviously you've never read the bible then because otherwise you would know that the bible is very clear that sex is intended for marriage. Hebrews 13:4 , Acts 15:20, 1 Corinthians 6:18 and so much more. There's no getting around it. Yes I am a Christian and I choose to follow God's word.
Reason 3- Since when is sex a need? Sex is a DESIRE, also known as a want not a need. Man does not need sex to survive. Example: If a man goes without sex for a week, he'll live. If a man goes without air for a week, he'd be dead-
- within the first hour. Therefore you can not tell me that you NEED sex, because you do not need. You WANT it.
Reason 4- Girls like myself, not "prudes", are liberated in every way as well except sexually which benefits us. Since you so badly desire a sexually liberated woman so bad, have fun with the STD's, and possibly unwanted pregnancies.
Reason 5- You can not differentiate a relationship and a friendship with sex because in today's society there are many people who are friends who also have sex. Also there are many things that differentiate a friendship from a relationship. Let's say a relative who you're close with and call a friend such as your mom and your girlfriend for example. You love your mom but you're not IN LOVE with your mom. (Whereas you can love your girlfriend and also be in love with her.) Also you can't be sexually, or romantically attracted to your mother can you? If you are that's okay with me buddy but I'm pretty sure most guys-
Overall, I truly feel sad and sorry for you. However I'm not here to try and change your beliefs or anything because it sounds like you're not changing his mind, you seem set. However the way you see women as only useful for sex is really disgusting. You don't honour or value women which is disrespectful to both women and God. Anyways good luck with your life. God bless.
Ok rule number one of not being a total cunt. Dont ask me why i believe something and then tell me what to believe. Its fucking stupid. Especially when you're dead wrong.
The bible defines marriage as the only surefire solution to the temptations sexual impurity. Nowhere does it say it is the requirement, or that sex should be avoided until marriage. Its just a preventative measure. Sexual impurity itself is defined as adultery, sodomy, and homosexuality. the bible even says any man who lays with another man should be stoned? Are you going to go out and stone some gay people now? No? Ok bitch, don't be picky and choosy with the old testament and read into shit that isn't there. Its ancient news and its contradictory to the teachings of christ.
And OH WOW. A woman makes a house a home. I'm sorry but i already consider this place a home and i don't really find myself in search of someone to sway my arbitrary definitions. i dont fucking believe in soulmates.
Aside from all the twilight guzzling romance novel bullshit you've gobbled up, which once again, HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH CHRISTIANITY... You're spouting off this bullshit puritanical shit from the 1800s that has long since been resolved. STDs and unwanted pregnancies? Birth control, bitch! Whats the difference between a relationship and friends with benefits? Monogamy, bitch! Why would that be in my best interest unless i was SURE a single woman could satisfy all my needs?
AND YES, NEEDS. Sexual tension doesn't go away. Its not something that just dissipates into the ether when you deny it long enough. If it doesn't come out through sex or masturbation, it comes out through the kinds of fucked up sexual frustration you're so elegantly projecting on me right now. Criticizing my life choices because judging people is the only thing that gets your pathetic ass off. You're going to be alone, a virgin, for the rest of your life, not just because of your abstinence, because you're a cunt
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what kinda virgin? Many types of virgins. A virgin that only does anal, oral, or hand jobs. OR A REAL ONE. Many women say it but don't mean it.
yes... for the right girl... yes
Im sure the right guy will :)
That is a very risky move!
Why?
You don't know if you're sexually compatible. Also notice that the guys saying they would date a virgin are virgins themselves.
If I loved the girl, I wouldn't care.
Few months would be my limit.
If I loved the girl, I'd be ok with it.
fuck yeah. why not.
no. god no.
Why not?
Reason 1: no woman can offer me anything i dont already have besides sex.
Reason 2: If you're doing it because you're christian, thats stupid, there is nothing in the bible about that. and i don't date stupid people. as for other reasons, well i just haven't heard any good ones yet. Most of it is pseudoreligious garbage.
Reason 3: I am a man and i have needs. Not wants, needs. As in, if you don't feed the beast, i will find someone who can, otherwise he will starve.
Reason 4: I prefer women who are liberated, mentally, emotionally, sexually, and socially. And prudes are none of those things.
Reason 5: I like a lot of people. Girls, guys, animals. I like some of them a lot. You want to know the only difference between those people and girls who are relationship material? The sex. Tell me one thing thats different between friendship and a relationship besides sex. Go ahead. Can you think of anything that isn't a pain in the ass?
Reason 1- Your justification has flaws in it already. If you weren't a self centered person you would realize that women in relationships are worth way more than sex and can offer a lot more than that. Girls can offer you a love like no other because it's from your soulmate, girls can turn a house into a home, she can offer you a family, and romantic gestures. But hey if you'd rather get all these from a family member that's up to you buddy.
Reason 2- Obviously you've never read the bible then because otherwise you would know that the bible is very clear that sex is intended for marriage. Hebrews 13:4 , Acts 15:20, 1 Corinthians 6:18 and so much more. There's no getting around it. Yes I am a Christian and I choose to follow God's word.
Reason 3- Since when is sex a need? Sex is a DESIRE, also known as a want not a need. Man does not need sex to survive. Example: If a man goes without sex for a week, he'll live. If a man goes without air for a week, he'd be dead-
- within the first hour. Therefore you can not tell me that you NEED sex, because you do not need. You WANT it.
Reason 4- Girls like myself, not "prudes", are liberated in every way as well except sexually which benefits us. Since you so badly desire a sexually liberated woman so bad, have fun with the STD's, and possibly unwanted pregnancies.
Reason 5- You can not differentiate a relationship and a friendship with sex because in today's society there are many people who are friends who also have sex. Also there are many things that differentiate a friendship from a relationship. Let's say a relative who you're close with and call a friend such as your mom and your girlfriend for example. You love your mom but you're not IN LOVE with your mom. (Whereas you can love your girlfriend and also be in love with her.) Also you can't be sexually, or romantically attracted to your mother can you? If you are that's okay with me buddy but I'm pretty sure most guys-
-would rather have a girlfriend.
Overall, I truly feel sad and sorry for you. However I'm not here to try and change your beliefs or anything because it sounds like you're not changing his mind, you seem set. However the way you see women as only useful for sex is really disgusting. You don't honour or value women which is disrespectful to both women and God. Anyways good luck with your life. God bless.
Ok rule number one of not being a total cunt. Dont ask me why i believe something and then tell me what to believe. Its fucking stupid. Especially when you're dead wrong.
The bible defines marriage as the only surefire solution to the temptations sexual impurity. Nowhere does it say it is the requirement, or that sex should be avoided until marriage. Its just a preventative measure. Sexual impurity itself is defined as adultery, sodomy, and homosexuality. the bible even says any man who lays with another man should be stoned? Are you going to go out and stone some gay people now? No? Ok bitch, don't be picky and choosy with the old testament and read into shit that isn't there. Its ancient news and its contradictory to the teachings of christ.
And OH WOW. A woman makes a house a home. I'm sorry but i already consider this place a home and i don't really find myself in search of someone to sway my arbitrary definitions. i dont fucking believe in soulmates.
Aside from all the twilight guzzling romance novel bullshit you've gobbled up, which once again, HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH CHRISTIANITY... You're spouting off this bullshit puritanical shit from the 1800s that has long since been resolved. STDs and unwanted pregnancies? Birth control, bitch! Whats the difference between a relationship and friends with benefits? Monogamy, bitch! Why would that be in my best interest unless i was SURE a single woman could satisfy all my needs?
AND YES, NEEDS. Sexual tension doesn't go away. Its not something that just dissipates into the ether when you deny it long enough. If it doesn't come out through sex or masturbation, it comes out through the kinds of fucked up sexual frustration you're so elegantly projecting on me right now. Criticizing my life choices because judging people is the only thing that gets your pathetic ass off. You're going to be alone, a virgin, for the rest of your life, not just because of your abstinence, because you're a cunt
Do yourself a favor. Next time someone says No, god no. Just leave it at that. Crazy bitch.