Aw man, that's rough. Do you talk to him still? The guy im into made a few obvious moves, but the things he did after threw me off and i just never followed through and neither did he. Now we're at some weird stage of friends or something less or more? Oh god.
Oh awesome! :) Give me some tips then hahah i'm currently in a weird limbo with a guy right now and i'm just terrified to make it more obvious that i like him.. even though he likes me. or liked, im not too sure anymore.
Well, the thing is he made some obvious moves (ie. kissed me) and bc i'm so inexperienced with guys and am shy, i just kind of shut him down and he's always smiling, looking at me, and says hi when i do see him and it's literally all me that ruins every thing by getting quiet and avoiding eye contact with him. I just feel like any thing i'll do is not in my character too or is too bold? I have no experience so everything is just weird or over whelming to me i guess, and im scared as hell
Yeah, it took me a while to realize that he liked me haha and it would throw me off when he would be bold and make a move.. and then other times he'd hold himself back and not do anything. So that didn't help me out too much. But if he's still showing signs that he's into me, then i'll make a move! I have to at this point anyways haha... thanks
It'll be a work in progress! And thanks so much for the compliment ;p I just went through high school thinking i wasn't attractive in some way bc most guys went after like the petite blondes or the ones who put out... as well as my friends... so it kind of messes with your head a bit. But it's all good, and thanks again ahha. Good luck to you if you meet someone!
I got to admit I have insecurities in my appearance so I assume I'm not deserving to the girls I liked... plus when I decide to confess what I feel they usually end up with another guy or liked another guy
Probably not. I haven't even been on a date yet so I second guess whether I'm ready it for it. I'm also a hopeless romantic and would expect more than what they could offer.
Me neither! We're the same in that sense haha. Every thing is totally new, and i just second guess every thing as well... and I loveeeeeee romance movies, romcoms, whatever. Like it just makes me feel good watching those movies and the idea of it all oh man haha
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nope if I like you I will in some way let you know then again I haven't found a girl in 5 years that I've been interested in
Yeah I have! I always tend to do that. In fact I've never made a move to any girl.
Yes, but only because she became a really good friend and I know her whole family.
Yes and I still think of him
I could tell he liked me too but i would avoid him and he never approached me
Aw man, that's rough. Do you talk to him still? The guy im into made a few obvious moves, but the things he did after threw me off and i just never followed through and neither did he. Now we're at some weird stage of friends or something less or more? Oh god.
Yes, a lot of guys have. even if we are falling hard for them.
so if you're "falling hard" for someone why wouldn't you confess? what is holding you back?
Being a nervous wreck.
I totally understand. I'm nervous as well and get really doubtful of myself. Best of luck to you!
It's okay! I have a great gf anyways now.
Oh awesome! :) Give me some tips then hahah i'm currently in a weird limbo with a guy right now and i'm just terrified to make it more obvious that i like him.. even though he likes me. or liked, im not too sure anymore.
Just go for it or you'll never know. Also, guys really don't cue in on hints.
Well, the thing is he made some obvious moves (ie. kissed me) and bc i'm so inexperienced with guys and am shy, i just kind of shut him down and he's always smiling, looking at me, and says hi when i do see him and it's literally all me that ruins every thing by getting quiet and avoiding eye contact with him. I just feel like any thing i'll do is not in my character too or is too bold? I have no experience so everything is just weird or over whelming to me i guess, and im scared as hell
Well, it seems like you both like each other maybe he is nervous about starting up a relationship. Why don't you just ask him. I think it'll work out.
Yeah, it took me a while to realize that he liked me haha and it would throw me off when he would be bold and make a move.. and then other times he'd hold himself back and not do anything. So that didn't help me out too much. But if he's still showing signs that he's into me, then i'll make a move! I have to at this point anyways haha... thanks
Let me know ow it turns out.
hahah, alright. Wish me luck.
I will.. i will!
This is pretty much all I do, I would just get rejected anyhow so I just let myself be repressed.
Yeah that's happened many many times. I regret it! :P
Yup all the time, I'm really shy and in my mind I don't think I'm good enough for them.
i feel ya on that one! We just gotta work on our confidence and some self-love haha, easier said than done.
Yes much easier said than done, however you're a pretty girl so you should use that to boost your self esteem
It'll be a work in progress! And thanks so much for the compliment ;p I just went through high school thinking i wasn't attractive in some way bc most guys went after like the petite blondes or the ones who put out... as well as my friends... so it kind of messes with your head a bit. But it's all good, and thanks again ahha. Good luck to you if you meet someone!
Plenty of times. Trying to not do that anymore.
That's a good first step :)
lol story of my life.
yup, amen to that haha
Happened many times unfortunately
Well, they say rejection builds character right? It's ok man
I don't think it actually does, it hurts just as much every single time xd!
Yep back in highschool
Haha hasn't everybody?
Just nice to read about other people and their views ya know ;p
I gotcha
Yes it happened and I regretted it.
It's okay girl :(
im 100% on this subject.
I know I have done that.
More times than I can count.
All the time :( damn I'm such a loser
Aw don't say that! One day you'll step up, just believe in yourself bro
I got to admit I have insecurities in my appearance so I assume I'm not deserving to the girls I liked... plus when I decide to confess what I feel they usually end up with another guy or liked another guy
Easier said than done @asker
Im sure everybody does including yo boi
say what
Who u think yo boi is?
you hahah
Huehue such a cutie ;3
I always like someone and never make the move.
Same, i just kind of watch from a far and think about them a lot.
Yupp, that's basically my life :)
Hahah, do you think the next time you're into someone you might tell them or no? What usually holds you back?
Probably not. I haven't even been on a date yet so I second guess whether I'm ready it for it. I'm also a hopeless romantic and would expect more than what they could offer.
Me neither! We're the same in that sense haha. Every thing is totally new, and i just second guess every thing as well... and I loveeeeeee romance movies, romcoms, whatever. Like it just makes me feel good watching those movies and the idea of it all oh man haha
Yeahh , exactly !