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I'm so sorry:( don't be embarrassed or ashamed. Don't give the jackass any satisfaction. Don't worry about leaving they house. isn't it illegal to post nudes without permission?
I found that it is illegal so I'm taking him to court not only for this but the harrassment and threats I have been receiving. Thanks
Good for you girl:) glad I was of help
Thanks
Sue his ass off. What a piece of shit.
I'm sorry this happened to you.
I intend on doing this and thanks
Call the police. You have NO REASON to feel ashamed or embarrassed. You can dress however you please. He obviously has control issues. And also emotionally abusive.
Thanks, I still have the abusive messages he's been sending me saved so those should help
Sorry to hear. Your ex seems like he acts on impulse. But yeah, do you know which website he posted it up on? If so, maybe you can contact then and tell them to get rid of those pictures. Best of luck to ya.
Thank, I contacted one site and I'm waiting for a response and I'm not sure if that's the only site.
You're welcome. Hope things work.
Thanks
You could take the police route, but sometimes that doesn't help. Or you could fight dirty and tell the cops he beat you. If he's out to ruin your life you might as well ruin his :D
I will contact the police but I won't make up any lies, I will tell the truth- that's bad enough
Good for you. That's what I would do first, but if the cops or no one else helps you (sadly, sometimes that happens even though it shouldn't) you should find another way to punish him. Don't listen to that eye for an eye makes the whole world blind bullshit. People need to feel the consequences of their actions
I agree they should especially something like this, be is pretty much puting me in danger in some respect and making me vulnerable
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Unless there is your face in the pictures, lie... if so then lie and tell people it's not yours... unless that's not ur personality... if your face is in it or you like being honest... you can report it to the police because it was private and illegal on social media... and then kick his ass
First I'd contact the webhoster and tell then about the problem in order to have the pics taken down. Then I would sue the guy because it is illegal to do this.
This^^
THIS is why I'd NEVER take naked photos of myself. For anyone. All you can do now is sue his ass.
Wow he sounds like a piece of crap. Sorry to hear it. But next time if you must send someone nudes, make sure he isn't going to do THAT. Wow.
I didn't send the nudes, he took them off my hard drive
Well then WOW. I don't really know what to say about him
He's a loser I can't believ it
@nert73 he is just a jealous asshole. I have nudes of my ex still and as much as I hate her guts I wouldn't show them to anyone.
@Blondiee2014 yep that's what I'm saying. He's just... what you said!
@Asker hope that never happens again
I'm just feeling broken and I'm going to the police I think
Might not be a good idea considering you had nudes of yourself. It's still extremely wrong if him, but they might find a way to blame you for it. I think @7heDubz is right.
He stole my nudes that's like a cyber crime posting them
Yeah, good point
Tell his mom, shame the little shit-cunt.
Then learn a valuable lesson about nude photo's: don't put your face in them.
Sit there and be mad. You can't un-post something, once it's on the internet it's there forever. I'd find a way to benefit or profit off them.
I would fucking kill him. report the picture, because pretty sure that's not even legal.
Why even take nudes? I was thought not to do that when i was 13I trust No one with things like that my bf can see me in real life why do you need pictures?
He stole them from me, so he must have searched my personal things behind my back. Who would expect their boyfriend to steal from them or search through their things?
Tell everyone his dick is small and he likes to play with his butt while having sex and that he sucks at sex, hope it was helpful
What I don't get is why you had nudes on your hard drive if you've never sent nudes... what was the point on having nudes of yourself?
Either way, that was wrong of him.
Was it on a social media site where your friends and family could see them?
No it's a revenge site or a few and I have never sent dudes before, I took them a while ago because I was doing before and afters for when I finish my gym program.
So is it possible no one you know has seen them? Make him take them down! That's terrible!
And next time take before and after pics in your bra and underwear.
He's dead wrong for that. That's immature of him to post your nude pics. But you should've also listened to him if that was your boyfriend, puttin on a longer dress or jeans would've been best. He felt as tho you went against him, and that you was trying to be cute for someone else. Insecurity is another topic. But as his girlfriend, making his insecurities secure, should be part of your duties.
My dress wasn't short (cut just above the knee) and didn't show any cleavage. I shouldn't have to wear pants to make him feel better. Him telling me what I should and shouldn't wear. So I should change my whole wardrobe just to make him feel secure? Yes, I was his girl and I was good to him. He was controlling, didn't like my friends, didn't like me even looking at dudes. Why would I reinforce this behaviour by playing along with it? I would be shooting myself in the foot. I wasn't even allowed to go out with my girls unless he came too. You think I should have stayed home then huh?
Well since you got more into detail, I can understand where you are coming from. Changing your wardrobe for your man, is necessary sometimes. But in the case of him being overly insecure and possessive, you did the right thing. And no I don't think you should've stayed home, you did the right thing by going out with your real friends. He's a foul bitch ass guy and I'm glad you stood up for yourself. You should go all out, and make him pay for what he's done.
Thanks for understanding and I will make him pay.
You own those nudes, Be proud that many many men are fapping to your beautiful self! Own it up!
Duhz
Perhaps go to the police...
I think I will but I feel so humilliated
yes i am sure it is humiliating and making you feel completely vulnerable, but hopefully they will be sensitive and help you get it removed, in addition deal with your ex bf.
I am sorry that has happened...
Thanks for your help
Call the police. What he did was illegal. You may also have a civil suit.