this has happend a couple of times,
my sisters husband, taken men, etc. all try to flirt with me... it hurts when you start to develop feelings for this guy, and you find out he had a girlfriend the entire time!
its so frustrating. i dont get why this happens to me.. any advice? :/ and why do guys do this?
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It happens to many girls. First of all, are you sure it is flirting? Being friendly and flirting can be confused. Are they suggesting more than just flirting? Maybe they just find you friendly and would never go beyond flirting. Are you flirting back? OR -Maybe you are very attractive and they are simply seeing if they can get something extra besides their girlfriend or wife. IF you want it to stop, do not flirt back, or, better yet, simple ask them how their wife or girlfriend is doing - this will often disarm them quickly. If they persist, it may be time to simply embarrass them, or simply getting a little mad and telling them you are worth more than a piece of ass on the side and if they are interested, they should break it off with thier girlfriend and then ask you out in a respectful way. then tell them you would probably say no because if the man cheats o n her, he will cheat on you!1