OK SO I asked her if she wanted to hang out, and she said OK but can she bring a friend ? I said it was OK, but in reality its not. well now I'm wondering what are the reasons for her wanting to bring a friend on our hang out (experiences appreciated) , and we did not establish that this was a date or anything I just asked her if she wanted to come with me and yea what do you guys think?
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come with you where? depends where you wanna go.. how long have you known this girl?
are you guys friends or you just met?
Girls tend to ask a friend to come with when:
she hasent been on too many dates.
she doesn't know you enough.
she doesn't feel comfortable enough to be at this place with you alone.
she doesn't want it to be a "date".
she wants it be more like a casual thing, as friends.
she wants to know what her girlfriend thinks of you, cause she might be not sure about it.
yeah that sucks but I suggest you going along with it to get to know her and next time you ask her out, tell her that you wanna spend time with her alone. maybe you need to try harder and to show her that you really like her =)