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You see we aren't even together yet he won't make the boyfriend girlfrirnd stage but he acts like my boyfriend says he likes me and everything. We have hungout and had sex once. he hasn't been in a relationship for awhile. He said he likes being alone and he is selfish he's the only guy that hasn't chased me or anything. He's the only guy i have ever chased Im just stuck i don't want to let him go. but i want him to realize what do i do? fall back?
If you feel that much that it's affecting your friendship with him, my advice would be to tell him that in a really heartfelt way, and let you know you feel like he's more than just a friend. But again, you know him better than everyone here.
No us girls aren't going to stick around and be a second choice though
That's what the question sounds like.
I really want this to be true but all to often men choose very poorly in this regard.