Boyfriend insecure... should I stop playing games? (Page 2)

Question

Ever since the start of our relationship, I've enjoyed playing games with him, which I know I shouldn't:

1. I took ages to respond to his messages

2. Never really complimented him or stroke his ego.

3. Rarely reply back to his "I love yous"

4. Never text him back when he texts me good night and good morning.

5. Read his messages and questions, but never respond for days.

6. Pretended to block him once and he started panicking.

7. Spoke about how attractive other guys are and how attractive my exes are.

8. Kept picking up fights and making break up threats, to which he pleaded me not to.

9. Didn't really flirt back.

Now he thinks I don't love him the same way he loves me and he is upset and insecure, I feel really bad because I thought being mysterious and playing hard to get worked. Now I feel that I have hurt him. He doesn't believe me when I told him how much I love him, What should I do to show him I love him so much? He is really attractive, chivalrous, polite, sweet, caring, protective (he said he would protect me with all his life) kind and very loving. Although I've spoken about hot guys (and he was really jealous every time), he said he only has eyes for me and I'm the prettiest, most intelligent and amazing girl he has ever met. He never talked about other women. I feel so guilty, what to do?

fueledbythc · Answer

You damaged him. Don't be surprised if be dumps you. You're so selfish...

Sara413 · Answer

You're an asshole. Why would you treat someone like that who you supposedly care about?

RationalMale · Answer

... seriously? why would you treat someone you actually like like this? I really hope he's banging other girls on the side. Or maybe he's banging you on the side.

Anonymous · Answer

No offense: but you're being a bitch, I've been on the other side of that. And it sucks, when you love someone and they do that crap to mess with you. I'm so grateful to have found a boyfriend who is so amazing now. But if you truly love him, then you wouldn't do that crap to him, it's just not right

buttheadkakakak · Answer

Sounds like you were just being a total jerk to him. I don't think he should have any respect for you.

Offthelist · Answer

Most would be annoyed but its really sweet and nice to have a list.. lol.. i love you. Just perfect.

Anonymous · Answer

The fact that you are playing games and know it shows how he deserves better. You are the kind of female that end up alone and bitter because the "are no nice guys"

PartialisticMan · Answer

Yes, you should stop not healthy for the relationship

Anonymous · Answer

I had a girlfriend who did this, I broke up with her

iFarted · Answer

You suck as a girlfriend...

cmale123 · Answer

Lol easy, ask him spend time with you. That all

apple24 · Answer

Just do him a favor and go!

takumii · Answer

I'd say dump him, he deserves better.

TrustyGuide · Answer

Treat him the way you would like to be treated.

orphan · Answer

you're a bitch.

XoxoXxx · Answer

Yes.

Boyfriend insecure... should I stop playing games? (Page 2)

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