Those kinds of laid back types that I've known usually aren't very ambitious types.
Their outlook on life is extremely practical, and they might not even work if they didn't need the money. It's all about being easy-going and fun-loving and enjoying life in small moments, not about working towards big dreams.
They also tend to be extremely independent. They go their own way, and you shouldn't expect to change that. They're not the types to fall madly in love. They're not the types to feel madly about anything: they're totally sane and grounded in reality.
Probably an ideal girl for those types is also one who is extremely independent, has her own life to live. Since these are typically not the type of guys who revolve their life around a girl, it's also healthy if the girl doesn't revolve their life around them.
Anyway, I don't know how this guy feels about you. It sounds like he likes you, but it's probably helpful for enjoying your time with him to also be laid back yourself. These are usually not the types of guys to set long-term relationship goals. They just enjoy life on a daily basis and just end up seeing and accepting what happens.
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Unfortunately he might not be very interested, especially if he's ignoring your suggestions to meet. Most men will make the effort to meet you if they like you, I don't think being lazy is an excuse. I have heard that some men will string you along as a back up girl, he could be doing that. Maybe give it more time and see if he makes the effort to get together with you on a regular basis.
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