Guy asked me to pay for the third date? (Page 2)

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Okay, so it was the third date. First date just had drinks (cheap) and he paid. Second date went for coffee and snack, and I offered but he insisted to pay ( was just a beach side cafe). 

Third date he asked me out to this fancy restaurant, had a proper Sunday brunch. When bill arrives he says "hey do you mind getting this one? its your turn" 

I was a bit shocked as the amount was way more than both the previous dates, I didn't mind splitting it but he just asked me to pay the whole amount for both our meals! 

May be he planned to spend for the next meal but we are still dating and he was the one who asked me out for this meal. Should I be mad?

OrangeBoy · Answer

Lol, what an ass. Going expensive and it's your turn... I just don't get some guys mentalities... it's like they are actually trying hard to lose their girl.

Jager66 · Answer

this is a non issue, you shouldn't even have to as this question.

Krillanr · Answer

He should have asked you before hand. But you should have stated that you would pay for yours, if it bothers you.

TheButterfly · Answer

Wow what a dick. It's not like it was another coffee date. You guys should have at least split it and he invited you! I wouldn't go on a fourth date

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I see nothing wrong with you paying but the way you're telling the story sounds like you're being scammed.

takumii · Answer

"Should I be mad?" My mom just died, should I feel sad? You don't ask 9thers how you should feel twit, you just feel what you feel.

Summer_Bunny · Answer

Just pay it it's no big deal... if you don't like it don't date him.

Puppylove94 · Answer

Thats crazy. i probably wouldn't go on a 4th date.

Anonymous · Answer

Exactly why stupid men need to stop paying or "insisting" to pay, dint be insecured about your "manliness" (you dont have any if you get insecured about it). Always split the bill and nwver insist to pay and encourage women like asker

Anonymous · Answer

Tbh I'd be pretty annoyed, you invited *me* out. You could at least ask to split the check.

singlebee · Answer

Actually he should have just split it...

Anonymous · Answer

I never let a woman pay for me on a date regardless on if she insisted, you need to upgrade and get a guy like me love

SovereignessofVamps · Answer

No he should ahve asked to split!

Anonymous · Answer

what a douchebag

baabyput · Answer

😭😭😭 sounds awkward

Whaaaaa · Answer

How about splitting the bill.

bobbyxx · Answer

Good for him. Stop whining.

neoagent1 · Answer

What a dick.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. I would be mad.

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