I am in this situation right now. This was her asking. No labels, but monogamous during this "testing phase". I feel like she wants a relationship without having to do any of the work that comes with having a relationship. She still tells all her friends about me. Yet I am not officially a boyfriend. She seems like she is getting ready to go those extra couple inches to seal the deal, then backs off. I don't blame her. Right now she can do absolutely as she pleases and does not have to factor my needs into her life. You get it all with this setup.. security in knowing they are locked up.. but none of the stuff that comes with having to maintain an official relationship. I got suckerd!
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I don't do exclusive and I make a point not to hide that from women at any point, but if I suddenly got the urge to I would make sure to mark my territory and hope that she would do the same. You can't really help feeling sexual attraction to other people. That's nature, but the emotional attachment you're describing should be openly defined between a couple for the world to see.
If you Both have Talked it over, and a Title such as "Exclusive" has Come up, you could be in the Stages of Dating, then Mating. It doesn't Mean Official until you both have slapped on another 'Title' that Means "Official," and with this, means In a Relationship, which is More Serious.
However, being 'Exclusive' could be that you are Past the Dating stage but are more like a Couple who are Not going Anywhere Anytime soon with Anything Too "Serious" when it Comes to a Relationship, but this is Called then An... Understanding Pact you have Between one Another until Further Notice.
Good luck and Great question. xx
maybe friends with benefits , well it depends on the situation? how did it happen , if a guy wants to be in a relationship he would put as a label and say i want you to be my girlfriend.
I wouldn't say that he's my boyfriend and i'm he's girlfriend, but he's interested in me (and so am I), so we're working together to be in a long term relationship.
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Your generation has such strange practices about dating. Why are you afraid to call it that?
It doesn't necessarily mean 'official/tell everyone'. It means 'only you' basically. It's generally meant as boyfriend/girlfriend though.
It means that they are your long term girlfriend and you aren't with anyone else romantically or physically. It is like marriage, but without the legal stuff or paper certificate.
We're only dating and fucking each other and do everything together and probably living together.
I only date exclusively to me that's normal and the only way to do it if you ain't just with one person then you ain't datin.
Making it official with each other, not seeing anyone else.
Only dating one person, while you are the only person they are dating, monogamous dating.
Girlfriend/boyfriend. Exclusivity is in essence is you taking something serious which usually leads to you being exclusively theirs.
Well, it depends. Are both of you single, for example? Are both of you open to a relationship?
There are so many permutations here!Not really sure what you're asking here. If you are dating you should be exclusive to them. Exclusivity is when you only do sexual/romantic acts with one person for a certain period of time.
lots of times it just means sexually exclusive... especially with girls that are head cases... that's my experience.
Yes to everything you said.
It means that she thinks hers is the only vagina I am boning.
Being exclusive...
No shit if not move on
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