Was I wrong in telling my girlfriend she gained some weight? (Page 2)
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She's being dramatic but why even mention it? Does it bother you? Unless she's panting for air after walking a flight of stairs, then I don't see the point in bringing it up.
You never ever tell a girl that she gained weight. Notice how I didn't say "fat" whether your girlfriend is fat or put on a few pounds it doesn't matter, you keep your mouth shut.
Why should you tell her that?
If she is not fat, and if she is happy why would you ever say something?
You are her boyfriend and not her daddy, soo stop pretending you are her daddy and mind your own business.
Dude how dumb are you? Like anyone else in the world and I wouldn't say that but you never tell your girlfriend she is looking fat unless maybe if she were getting unhealthy. Thats gonna take some serious working to fix man.
That's really rude... Especially from a boyfriend... :(
She is not fat, she gained weight that is all. I understand it was stupid for me to say it and tomorrow im going to apologize for that. I never meant for her to take it that serious. I was dumb to say it and again she is not fat, i still love her. She has a good body but i didn't date her for her body, i dated her cause of her amazing personality too
Tell her that then. Never point out flaws in your SO unless your telling them how much you love them (but even then its better to just not...). If my boyfriend told me that he noticed i gained weight, even if im not fat and even if he doesn't mind, id still feel like shit. You made a mistake, that's fine. Learn from it and apologize for it :)
yeah. I won't do it again, i thought she would take it a bit better. My dad has been calling me fat for 8 years, but i brush it off (or at least try too). I dont think im fat, but he says i need to lose weight. But again i dont take it too serious. ill tell her im sorry tomorrow
lmao! Omg you didn't. are you sure she's your girlfriend still?
She is not fat, she gained weight that is all. I understand it was stupid for me to say it and tomorrow im going to apologize for that. I never meant for her to take it that serious. It was my fault so i'll say sorry. Yes she is still my girlfriend but i can tell she is not as happy as before and this is the reason why. I never meant it in a mean or nasty way
Some things can be told in an acceptable ways. With skill full talk every delicate problem can be tackled.
Sounds like something I would do lol. Women are too sensitive sometimes.
It's not being too sensitive
@Touchmehxx Yeah it is lol. Crying over that is be overly sensitive.
No it really isn't. He literally said to her you've put on weight. And for someone to say something will make her feel bad. Yea she might think that people will realise she's put on a few pounds but for someone to actually say it will make her feel like she's fat
@Touchmehxx what if I cried because my girl said I put on a bit of weight lol
What about it?
@Touchmehxx wouldn't that be a little ridiculous?
No. don't invalidate people's feelings
Prevention is better than cure so I find nothing wrong with telling her that she gained weight. It's faster to lose 10 pounds than 50 pounds.
Why would you tell her that? Seriously it's so insensitive especially if it's not affecting her health e. g. If she's overweight
It's not wrong. She wouldn't hesitate to complain about you if you got fat, or loss your job.
You fucked up bro. Now you gotta fix it
ill apologize tomorrow to her. I didn't mean it in a bad way, didn't know she was that sensitive but ill tell her
You better right out your apology for us to see so you don't acrew shit up even more OP
Uh yeah she might have low self esteem and take it personal.
No, she is reacting incorrectly. Not you. She seems like an idiot to me. Her weight is clearly something she can change if it bothers her so much...
No. It was honest.
no its cool.