I am an okay looking girl, I stand 5'5ft tall but for most of my life, I've been single. I just don't get approached. Why is that? Most of the guys I like either turn out to be fuckboys who wanna netflix and chill ( I'm not down for that stuff) or cute guys who don't approach me at all. I've had one relationship in the past which turned into a long distance relationship, with him eventually breaking up with me saying "He's not worthy of me" ... I assume he probably cheated. I'm tired of being alone. What am I doing wrong? Is there something I should change about myself of my appearance? I'm shy, and I don't drink or smoke. Could that be why? :(
I don't think people approach people anymore. Everyone I know meets people through work, friends, or online. You need to be more outgoing if you want to see results. It doesn't matter if you're shy, there's got to be people that you deal with on a regular basis right now that you can open you up to in order to meet different people. I'm not talking about people that you're interested in either, it can be fellow colleagues and family friends that you can start building friendships with at a deeper level so that those opportunities open up. Eventually you'll have built a network and come closer to finding a good match for yourself and make new valuable friendships in the process.
You're stunning and look like you have an amazing figure, so it's Definitley not that, I would guess you being shy has a lot to do with it and maybe guys don't get the opportunity to know you as well as both you and they would like to? That and a lot of guys in their twenties aren't looking for serious relationships, they just wanna hookup, eat breakfast for dinner and play COD
Being shy just means it'll take a little longer to get to know people, and I guarantee when you find that guy he'll Ben happy your not into random hookups
May be your intimidating to guys. Probably the main reason why they dont approached you. I use to get that a lot all the time. Being attractive girl make guys feel insecure and don't have the courage to even make that move on you or even talk. People say I look like bitch with a mean face. That's how I look lol. Hopes this helps 😃
Not being approached or not being able to be in a relationship doesn't always have something to do with looks. I know people that aren't too blessed in the genes department that find the love of their lives. You sound a little desperate to find someone maybe you should focus on you and go with the flow. There's no rush. Choose wisely.
You're pretty and you seem to be the lovable, silly, fun type! So that's great! Lots of guys love that I know I do. Your height isn't an issue at all. Partly your age and our society where not a lot of young people want a committed relationship. You don't drink and guys your age are probably out at bars and clubs on the weekend. There is nothing that you are personally doing wrong. Your appearance is good. But you may want to try and approach those cute guys. Break away from your shyness and face your fears. Thats how we grow as a person.
as a guy there are few things that will make hesititant about approaching a girl :
1- iam not interested in anything serious unlike her 2- she is taken/ or acts like she's taken 3-has a bad reputation of being slutty, has an attitude, bitchy, high maintanance 4-older than me
if its one of those then work on fixing it, looks wise you are absolutly attractive i dont know any guy who wouldn't want to date a girl that looks like you but despite that fact some things will always affect your chances.
they are not, guys will not commit unless something really draws their attention, if they are meeting average girls with nothing special about them then most guys will choose to not settle for them and keep looking , when guys find a great girl (in the guys opinion) then comitting to her is the right thing to do, guys are not commitment phobes its a lie they tell to girls they are not interested in having anything long term with, and of course a small number isn't interested in marriage at all.
as for your problem, i find the most common problem with girls and guys sometimes is the fact that they have close friends of hte opposite gender that the hang out with often or they play too much on their phones / act like they are taken which stops others from talking to them.
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