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Is a woman's looks the most important factor for men? (Page 2)
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Those who said no are idiots.
Psychology research will say yes. The most important factor for guys when dating is in fact looks.
For girls, it's status and wealth
Look it up
Im sorry but thats certainly idoitic to label everyone the same.
For me it has never been the most important factor by far, if anything its kinda completely meaningless.
In either case you are already proven wrong with just that, and obviously too not every girl care about status and wealth.
@Tanuron cmon how can you take someone serious who uses terms like ''psychology research'' to talk about what guys like loool.
@applesandoranges22 Stupidity grows on trees, so nothing really surprise me anymore :) . So best to just say, regardless if trolling or not for example.
@Tanuron yeah I know but there is a certain age where you shouldn't think like this, then there are those rare cases like the OP lol.
@Tanuron awww You two sound butt hurt...:(((((
@Appleandoranges22
1- that's a fallacy. My argument still holds the same
2-yeah right. Completely Meaningless? Forget about attraction. Looks play a huge rule in "who" you are/ turn out to be. Following that, if you dismiss someone's looks you're dismissing a part of who they are. A HUGE PART OF THEIR IDENTITY. So how could it not be an important factor
butthurt about what?
You dont really have any argument beside sweeping everyone with the same broom.
Not everyone care about looks as much as you do, so no. can't really change the bone structure (or well maybe with crazy surgeries etc) and make up simply hide or enhance what is already there, so stupid to base anything on your own imagination or false perceptions other than, "hey this girl put on make up" the reasons why is a personality thing. Clothing for example could say more in many ways really, but how about just simply accepting people for however they may look, whatever they may look like and just take it step by step judging by their personality. You seriously dont think that is possible?
Looks are what gets your personality's foot in the door. Long term, personality is more important.
For a lot of men, yes. I've seen men admit to it. If you're not going to give a woman the time of day just because of the way she looks, what do you call that?
You've been with crap men then.
Looks are like 95% to guys and 5% is personality. And any guy who says otherwise is straight up lying. Guys are totally visual creatures.
Obviously you hangout at bars too often.
I am lying :P
Except I am not ;P
@GraveTruth I work in a bar. So yeah I hang out in one because it's where I earn my money. You saying guys aren't completely visual? And most guys in my bar as so drunk they'll fuck anything that moves, so the bar excuse is garbage.
@Blonde401 I noticed from your many posts you don't accept your appeareance and you probably have problem with pretty girls who has better success and access to many thing because of their looks.
@what1234 I accept my appearance fine. You creeping on all my comments now? I don't accept my depression. That's my issue. I know I'm not ugly. And have a problem with pretty girls 😂 I'm bisexual so I have no problem with pretty girls. I'm very happy being single actually and working on myself. If you have nothing to add to the debate except insults then get off my thread.
@what1234 but thanks for proving my point. Men only go for looks.
It's our biology. Sorry ;)
You also go for looks. ;)
@what1234 no I go for chubby nerds. So I wouldn't say looks are high up on my list of what I go for.
You go for them, because you are not conveniotally attractive. ;)
@what1234 if you say so 👍 Whatever helps you sleep at night.
@what1234 nice to see you've put a picture up of you for my judgement... oh wait. You haven't. Probably because you're nothing to look at yourself.
I am attractive for my beautiful girlfriend. That's it.
And you are really depressed girl...
@what1234 yeah I totally believe you. Sounds like a really believable story ;) bye you troll loser.
The bar excuse it's garbage. it's true. If you are going to judge guys at a bar and say all guys are pigs then of course that's what you are going to think. All pretty much all guys who go to bars are pigs.
That's like me going to a brothel and saying all women are whores.
Now personally, I don't have sex with women I am not comfortable with nor can I sleep with a random girl. In order for me to do that I need to be emotionally attached to them. If I ever slept with a random I would feel disgusting.
The main thing I like about women is the pleasant atmosphere of natural softness they present. Women do not have much testosterone so they illuminate a nurturing spirit. I don't want to fuck a girl. I want a girl to get lost in.
BUT women have a word for guys who think like me. They call them losers or nice guys then they go to the bar and go for the guy at the center of the popular social group. The one who is screaming at the tv about some sports. Yelling and being all obnoxious.
@GraveTruth where did I say all guys are pigs?
And nowhere did I slate nice guys. At all. And 'nice' guys don't do well for a number of reasons.
You're still going to go for girls totally based on looks though aren't you? I bet you don't date bigger girls or girls who aren't pretty even if their personality is awesome.
Well, you "work" in a bar which doesn't say anything but you are judging from there too. Hell, you work there so it would be hard to not.
Women that I would go for.
-Firstly I should say that I've been single for over 3yrs now. I have not even had anything close to a girlfriend in that time. Mainly because I don't smoke, drink, nor drink coffee, or party.
It's true I wouldn't be interested in a fat girl. When I mean fat I say 180lb+. The reason for this isn't because they don't have a lot of qualities I like. It's because I have a personally made professional fitness schedule. I workout 1.5 to 2hrs a day 5 days a week and tackle almost every muscle group there is. I usually do it really late and it doesn't affect my time though. On the 6th day I hit missed muscles or what's called body gaps. Every two months I'll look at my body and see if there is a spot that is looking off. Usually I'll find a spot I've been missing like under my chin, above the collarbone, palm, etc.
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The 6th day is for that.
I don't talk about fitness all day people can tell me am fit because they have eyes and I'll say stuff like "oh that looks healthy".
On top of that I have no problem walking. I live about 4 blocks from downtown and 20 blocks from my parents and it's really not a problem to walk. I have a sweet ride but the summer is nice. Also I can get a better tan. I like tanning. I've always been naturally pale and for the last couple of years I've been tanning well.
It's also healthy on my heart. My dad heartattack, uncles heartattacks, both grandfathers dead from them.
It's best I do cardio.
I used to eat junk food but now I eat for protein, fiber, and calories. I also avoid the 5 sugar ingredients. When I buy maple syrup, out the the 6 brands, I have seen the ingreds, and I always get the one with the lowest sugar.
I also have learned a lot about all of the vitamin Ks, C, D. and eat certain stuff for that.
Question: Is an overweight woman going to to be content with me
@GraveTruth "work". Yes I do. I work my ass off thanks. And despite working in a bar, I don't drink. I don't smoke either. I don't party. I'm pretty chill. I just happen to need money because of capitalism.
Wow. What a long ass comment to say you like fitness... yeah why wouldn't a fat girl be content with you? Truth is you don't want a fat girl. So you're interested in looks 95% of the time. And there's nothing wrong with that. Men are visual creatures and that's fine. But call a spade a spade for gods sake.
No, the point was simple. They would feel like lazy cattle with someone with a lot of personal self discipline.
Of course I have a hell of a lot of bad qualities to match that... meh.
Anyway, I don't go for looks. I do admire women for their beauty and I do find women hot sometimes. Usually it's isolated on their behind and choice of clothing.
@GraveTruth not really. I know plenty of guys and girls who aren't into fitness who date those who are. Nice of you to call someone lazy cattle for not being into fitness though.
So you're into ass and how they dress? Still superficial.
yeah, I'm into ass. I do like the way it looks but that's not why.
I have a domestic discipline roleplay/ageplay/therapy/punishment/sensual spanking fetish. that would explain that.
Why do I get the feeling that if we dated and I said something like "You make me feel motivated to wake up in the morning" you can't take compliments and would say "You being nice cause you want your dick wet. YOU are SUCH and asshole. I hate men!!" I hate you!"
hahaha
@GraveTruth I don't hate men at all. I love men. I have loads of male friends and I grew up with two brothers who I adore. I just don't put up with bullshit from any gender. And I just want people to tell the truth. But that line is pretty cringey TBH.
@GraveTruth just call a spade a damn spade! Men are visual. That's why they date girls who with no personality who are hot but vapid.
Eh... It's what attracted me to my girlfriend initially but after knowing her, it wasn't the most important.
I don't really know which to pick.
Personality?
Intelligence?
These can stay longer than looks. Looks fade.
But Personality and Intelligence aren't also permanently. However these both are choices. Looks aren't.
My final answer is NO!
Women are not the center of this world. Males and females walk on this Earth equal. Looks are not the biased factor for liking someone. There are many other factors to see. Looks can give you a false factor about the person.
can't believe how many voted yes. What a sad world we live in.
hell no. as its not for men. there are millions and millions beautiful people on this earth, but only a handful beautiful hearts... .
Not even close. That's superficial. What is inside is so much more important. Good looks are just the wrapping. It gets old like the paper.
It usually is at first, anyway. When you first meet someone you usually know nothing about them beyond how they look, right now. It isn't realistic to see someone across a crowded room and think, I bet she has a great sense of humor.
When looking for a girl yes, however if a woman is straight up nasty her looks go out the door. The reason why I go for looks is because I figure their has to be a nice looking girl with a good personality, why wouldn't I try for that?
To mess around with? Yes
To date? Yes, but then she needs a good personality and other traits too.
It might be for a very shallow man. But I don't think that's the case for the most part.
Sure, most people want the best they can get. I do think guys will settle way more often though.
It depends on how the guy looks at it, but in all honesty, the appearance of someone does attract you to walk over to them and strike up a convo!
No. I've met far too many plankboards with no substance
The most important? No, not for all guys. Not by a long stretch.
Since it is impossible for all men to think the same way, we cannot answer yes to this question.
Appearance can tell us a lot about a person but I would say style has more pull than physical looks.
Style attracts me to them then personality takes it from there.