We've been talking online for quite a few weeks, and I have met him before. We have loads of connections and he's from my area, a couple years older. Some mutual friends. I went over to his place for the first time last night and we had a really nice time, he offered to do a bunch of things but we just went for a walk and then back to watch some stuff. He gave me a massage which was super nice and turned me on, and I'd have to say up until this point I was into him and wanting to do stuff and I would have been still super into him now if we had stopped there. But we made out and we're basically almost all naked except I kept my undies on and I told him I wouldn't have sex (after an hour or so of making out). Now I'm unsure because I didn't get super wet, I didn't like how he kissed, I felt like I had to trick myself to get into it at times, I can't really stare too long or look at him while we're doing stuff because I don't find his face to be super attractive (during sexual stuff) I found, and now I just feel super confused. He wants to see me again, he really likes me, didn't pressure me for more. He tried to eat me out / finger me a few times but I kept pushing my panties back up. I haven't had sex in a year and a half (I'm 22) since I was hooked on a guy who ended up just breaking my heart rather recently, and didn't want to do anything sexual until I met the right one.
So what do I do, do I see him again and try again? Or is it just not a match for me?
So what do I do, do I see him again and try again? Or is it just not a match for me?
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How can I tell? Was I just nervous, is that why I wasn't wet? The only times I got super into it was when he kissed my neck a bunch and massaged me here and there throughout the night
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