I can't develop feelings for anyone and I don't know what to do? (Page 2)
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tell him how different he is? is that difference can make me change? do you really believe on that?
Because maybe last year you were so emotionally and sensitive girl right? no worries you still 18 keep going and everything will be perfect by the time :)
I'm the same and it's so odd. I think I'm just guarded, and don't wanna get hurt again.
You probably need to open up and risk being vulnerable
It's gonna take time, but when the right one comes around you'll know it and you'll open back up
dont worry it will take some time. time heals everything
Seek a GOOD psychologist (there are boat loads of bad ones) you are probably broken and need the process those emotions
do you find it hard to care when other people get hurt physically or emotionally?
Yes, because I believe that everyone has to deal with his problems on his own, because I personally always did it that way, so I expect other people to stop naggering to me about their problems and just try to live with/accept them. If a person would come up to me being emotionally or physically hurt, I would ask them where they were at the moment when I could have used some of their help.
I wouldn't say you're a sociopath so much as done with people's shit. Which is a good thing. Not dealing with other people's shit is the first step towards a happy life in my opinion.
You said it right, done with people's shit. The day I stopped caring, I got better, there are many advantages, but it affects your private life in a negative way. You can't get into relationships (which are a fulfillment to many people) and you loose many friends. You just have to get used to it and deal with it. The day you learn and accept to handle it, is the day you're completely done with everything and slowly can find your peace by not caring or only caring about the people who REALLY care about you. It took me a year to get to that point, but there are always up and downs in life.
damn straight. I have been that way almost to a t since my my recent ex. I lost "friends" but I don't need a relationship to be happy so I am. I was wondering if that made me fucked up or if it was somewhat normal, now I don't feel so fucked up 😂.
You're just becoming an arsehole after being hurt, I guess it's normal as long as you feel good by living that way😂
I get sex when I want it and respect for being so straight up honest with people so hell yeah I agree with that.
As long as you're being straight up honest, everything's cool
Your a woman. All women are like you. They want sex and money. No woman falls in love with guys that's complete bull
Sex is actually the last thing I need and I've got my own money which I spend on myself, even if someone offers me to pay, so I'm finacially independent. So no, not all women are the same😏
Your 18 and would happily start f**king an old rich guy for money don't lie. Also you have probably cheated and slept with over 20 guys. You will cheat on any poor guy that dates you. You are a modern girl and that's how they act
WHAT THE HELL? I've never had a boyfrienda and I would never cheat on anyone. Please go and seek professional help...
... this is how modern women behave. You didn't deny that you've already been f**ked by at least 20 men. That's low for the average 18 these days. You will cheat because you are a modern woman. Why won't you accept that?
You may be focusing too much on the past. Look forward. "It is during our darkest moments that we must focus to see the light." -Aristotle
just start watching porn, go near guys and greet everyone with hugs I mean your friends that's all
You can try being friends first that way you feel comfortable enough to trust them with your heart
it's ok, you don't need to love anyone, only the people that respect you and care.
You don't have to develop feelings and stop trying. Live your life and one day someone may get you to develop feelings for him.
It's quite normal.
just get into friendships then think about relationships because a friend can understand you better
You'd be perfect for a friends with benefits situation
I hate being touched, so sex isn't fun and enjoyable to me as it is for 99% of the people in this world. Plus I don't want to share such an intimacy with a person I don't even have feelings for
Good luck
I'm the same way. And with almost everything in your question. I fell in love a year and a half ago and he really broke my heart, and since then I couldn't give a fuck for anyone, yet I have so many who want to be part of my life, many men who keep trying, but I have nothing for them anymore. Everyone seems so predictable and it's getting boring, I enjoy being around only myself 90% of the time. I don't know what to offer for advice, but maybe take it as an opportunity to be by yourself and not try to be with anyone and work on your life and your dreams. That's what I'm trying to do, because at least what I provide and make for myself and the world I create is of my own and will always be there, while you can't rely on others at all. Unless someone amazing comes along, I could give a shit who comes or goes.
you may be asexual, and do not like it for the sexual aspect of relatiotionship, so base it off their characteristics
the ones around u make u feel what u feel but dont be to critical
Maybe just try now to let it be known you're an introvert and make it clear early in every person you meet you aren't looking for any type of boyfriend
Continue to be true to yourself
So mad a pretty girl like you can't develop feelings. I stand no chance now 😔
bad**
the right person will come along,