I'm dating a Christian who is not a virgin. Should I dump her?

[Marcrc21193]

Im dating a Christian girl and she is not a virgin. This is the 4th girl I've dated in the past 1.5 years thats not a virgin. I'm not lucky or good enough to date a virgin. All I get is used goods. I dumped them all because they weren't virgins.

I've done oral with all of them and used them for a period of time. Then i dumped them out of the blue. Same pattern over and over. My girlfriend was only with 1 guy and had intercourse 1 time with him.

But I'm so pissed because this girl is a Christian and I thought she would be different. I thought she would be a virgin. Either I'm your first or nothing. I'd rather not be in your life if I'm not your first. What is so good about dating a non virgin?

Dump her

Stay. Date her longer than the last guy.

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Please look what I selected for most helpful answer! That's exactly what I think! I can't love a non virgin. I can't love a girl that is not good enough. That's why I use non virgins.

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Anon guys most helpful answer is gospel! Spread the gospel. Spread his pump and dump philosophy to all who read this post!

[Pomegranate139]

Dump her. The fact that you can do sexual things but your girls can't shows that you don't deserve a virgin. Leave so she can find someone more respectful who isn't used goods like you.

[Marcrc21193]

Oral sex is not used goods. that's all I've done.

[Pomegranate139]

Oral sex is still sex. You don't want her because she's had other guys dicks in her mouth and vagina. Well you've had other girls vaginas in your mouth so you're no pure lily either. And what's so special about having a virgin? You'll probably dump her in the end anyway

[Marcrc21193]

Who says oral sex is sex? Anyways, non Virgins made an important decision to lose it to another guy. Why can't I be an important decision to them? I just get leftovers. Story of my life.

[TheWaterBear]

"Who says oral sex is sex?" It's in the name, dude.

[Pomegranate139]

Maybe you aren't worth such an important decision. What makes you so special? What about you is so important and unique that you only DESERVE a virgin?
Look I understand if you'd PREFER a virgin girl considering you are inexperienced yourself, but what makes you oh so much better than other men to push away all women if she isn't a pure virgin? You're not better than other men.
And honestly to some degree I can understand why you'd only want a virgin. I don't fully support discriminating based on ones sexual past, but I get it. What makes you a selfish, narcissistic, dickhole is how you treat the girls who don't fit in your pretty little box. If you just left them because they aren't fully what you want is one thing, but it's that you would choose to use them for your own selfish needs and then leave. THATS why you are undeserving. THATS why most other commenters are mad at you. Regardless of their past they at the very least deserve respect as humans.

[Marcrc21193]

I don't care who you are. If you are not a virgin, and you want to date me, then you are not a person to me. You are some disgusting thing wanting to give me used goods. You reap what you sow. Give me used goods and I will use you and lose you.

[TheWaterBear]

Dude, you you put your mouth on four different women's vaginas and you are lecturing on used goods, AND you claim to be a Christian? L O L

[Pomegranate139]

By that logic you are also not a person having done oral on four girls. And if you are reaping what you sow, then you will never get a virgin because you yourself are "disgusting used goods"
You claim to be a Christian, but frankly with your attitude you're the type of Christian that makes everyone want to abolish religion.
Grow the fuck up you backwards child.

[Marcrc21193]

For now, in the moment, I'm choosing to use non Virgins because it feels good to me. It feels like the right thing to do. It feels like justice. I've had the opportunity to use 4 non virgins in 1.5 years and I don't want it to end. I will never be good enough to get a virgin and commit. But I am good enough to use non virgins and manipulate. Justice makes me happy as well.

[Pomegranate139]

Wait so if a girl does oral on another guy only is she good enough for you?

[Marcrc21193]

It's totally fine with me if a girl has done only oral. We have equal life experience. At least I will be first for something with this girl.

[estoydorado1]

Leave her and seek some counseling. You seem to be taking their sexual history extremely personally considering the fact that you've been sexually active yourself. You're unwell.

[Marcrc21193]

Her history is worse than mine. She went further with that guy.

[estoydorado1]

😒 Aight, so leave her alone

[MindYourEyes]

You've asked this question before. And again you are just as bad. You've done sexual things so u ain't no virgin.
Asshole

[Marcrc21193]

This is my first time here.

[Tony_1693]

Lmao what era are we living in bro? It's 2017.. not 1612.. I think that's a ridiculous reason to breakup but to each their own I guess.

[Marcrc21193]

I have standards regardless of the year.

[Tony_1693]

And so do women.. you most likely don't match them for the fact that you're irrational.

[JimRSmith]

Do her a favour and dump her.

She can do better than you.

[Marcrc21193]

I don't think so.

[JimRSmith]

Marc, she can.

She told me.

[Mark19999]

Screw all these people criticizing you. I totally agree and I would not date a non virgin. Unlike you, I've never had oral sex or sex. I have never seen a girl naked with my own eyes. This is not because I am lonely, but its because I chose to be this way. I dont understand why girls would throw their first time away to any guy. To me, that shows who they are as a person. Moreover, oral sex does not count as sex. To me, the first time of a male and the first time of a female is different. A male often forget about their first time, but for a female they won't ever be the same after their first time. However, i still believe that if you want a virgin girlfriend. Itll be reasonable for you the stay virgin too. But if your ideal relationship is that even if you are not virgin, this girl must be virgin. So be it. Because it is your life, not anyone elses. This is just my opinon.

[topi_tonge]

if you date a virgin girl and have sex with her b4 marriage, then, she will also not be a virgin.
then, did she loose all her respect and values?
after having se ex with your virgin girlfriend, you will not respect her enough right?

dude you r mentally sick!

throw away this marrow minded attitude

after you say all this , i doubt the girl deserves you!

you don't respect hr at all and then also dating her?
nope,,, you are fooling her in the name of love

dump her as soon as possible!

[Marcrc21193]

I'm staying with the virgin I sleep with. I only pump and dump non Virgins.

[thghtlssthghts]

Dump her she needs to find someone living in this century. Why does virginity matter?

[Marcrc21193]

Non virgins have a lot of past baggage. Also, she made the important decision to lose her v card to another guy. I wanted to be the important decision.

[thghtlssthghts]

I have no baggage. It isn't an important decision. Hopefully you'll understand one day.

[Marcrc21193]

How is it not an important decision?

[watercolor_lions]

I really hope you don't consider yourself a Christian...

[Marcrc21193]

I do.

[watercolor_lions]

I will tell you right now: this is not how a Christian behaves.

1) You are being very anal with details about the law—we are supposed to remain PURE, not simply virgins
2) You are judging her, so your judgment on this when you get to heaven will be very harsh
3) This is abusive, and not loving at all

I do not know who you are, or your whole story. So I cannot say I know what will happen to you. But I will say this: God tells us to warn other Christians if they are doing something wrong.

And the Bible says, "Not everybody who says, Lord Lord, will get into Heaven".

[TheWaterBear]

He's done oral sex with four women, then claims that he's better than those four women because "at least I didn't have intercourse." He's throwing stones inside a glass house.

[watercolor_lions]

@TheWaterBear Some people claims he is a troll. Figured I'd respond just in case

[Marcrc21193]

@TheWaterBear they had intercourse and I have not. They are worse than me. I deserve better.

[watercolor_lions]

Lol your troll is dead give it up

[Marcrc21193]

Say what you want but I'm not abusive. Using non Virgins for sex is not abusive. I still treat them good. I just use them and then abruptly leave them.

[TheWaterBear]

So you performed oral sex on them, and then judged them for being sexual? I think you need a refresher on Christianity. "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone."

[Marcrc21193]

She did intercourse, I only did oral. She is worse

[TheWaterBear]

I hope you're not actually a Christian yourself, because you'd be even more of a hypocrite than you currently appear to be.

[Marcrc21193]

I've only done oral and not intercourse. I'm not a hypocrite.

[TheWaterBear]

BUT... You've done oral, so by your logic, what makes you think that you're worthy of a girl who is a virgin?

[TheWaterBear]

Also, the fact that you say you "used" them and then dumped them says a lot about your character. You sexually use women until you get tired of them and discard them like trash, yet you want a pure, innocent woman? Why on Earth would she want YOU?

[Marcrc21193]

I only discard non Virgins. I think non Virgins are trash. I would commit to a virgin.

[TheWaterBear]

Again, why should a pious, virgin Christian woman marry you, when she could marry another Christian man who hasn't done sexual things with multiple other women?

[Marcrc21193]

But I haven't done intercourse yet.

[TheWaterBear]

So? Oral sex is a sexual act. You are not "pure" like the virgins you desire.

[CoffeeGirl456]

Dump her , she will be lucky to find another good next. Virgin or not mean nothing to her than happy. If you happy to find a virgin girl in this era , dump her so. Cheers

[Marcrc21193]

I will dump her if I ever meet a virgin.

[Aurbrey1980]

Fair to her

[CoffeeGirl456]

Good for her

[Marcrc21193]

The good guy she finds next will be a desperate weak man.

[Jennifer398]

So it is ok to use her, then dump her? First or nothing? Wow you should either get over your self or get used to a life filled with dis appointment.

[Marcrc21193]

It's been disappointed for me in life so far.

[seanwdragon]

I love reading posts like this. Makes me realize I'm not as terrible as other people.

[Marcrc21193]

There is nothing terrible about using non virgin girls. They are throw away trash.

[seanwdragon]

Dude, that's your mother you are talking about 1
2) you are wrong for thinking that
3) virgins are the worst since their lack of experience usually means sex is just one sided.

[irrationally97]

You should probably dump her, it's best for her that her boyfriend doesn't think of her as "used goods".

[Marcrc21193]

I don't care what's best for her. she's the one who fucked up and took her pants off.

[Imafreespirit]

yeah, dumb her. She deserves to be with someone better than you.

[Marcrc21193]

How can you get better?

[Imafreespirit]

oops *dump lol

You just need to stop judging man.

[Marcrc21193]

If I accept used goods then I'm weak.

[false]

aiming high is a good thing but you're ignorant for considering yourself better than others and that is your weakness

[Marcrc21193]

@false what do you mean by aiming high? Aiming for non Virgins is aiming low.

[Anonymous]

Dude, oral is sex. You are not a virgin so you should not dump her just bc she's not a virgin bc you aren't and that's super hypocritical.

[MyAtlantis]

Don't judge her past. If you love her, do not dump her. It doesn't matter she is not a virgin. You can still wait till marriage.

[Marcrc21193]

I will wait for someone who waited as well. I'm not waiting for a non virgin.

[MyAtlantis]

Your choice. I think you are not right here unless you don't love her. Dump her, better for her. I think we should not judge someone's past because God frogives us if we change.

[TheWaterBear]

Having oral with four women isn't exactly "waiting for marriage."

[MyAtlantis]

@TheWaterBear right

[metalsucks2]

Move to Saudi Arabia Im sure you can find lots of virgins there.

[Marcrc21193]

I hate the middle East hell hole.

[Kat_puppies]

dump her ass, i know your pain im a virgin but im not christian

[Prakbio]

seriously you want a virgin you done oral with 4 girls. sorry but its very narrow minded thinking

[Marcrc21193]

I haven't done intercourse. It's fair to want a virgin.

[MidnightCowboy]

She should dump you for being a dumbass.

Find a sex doll, I'm sure that "she" would be virgin lol

[Marcrc21193]

I'm dumping her when I find a virgin.

[false]

you clearly dont deserve a virgin since you're not good enough so id suggest you stick with the used up goods

[Marcrc21193]

I hate used goods

[divyansh1329]

You need some serious help. If you are not virgin how can you expect her to be. She has equal right to dump you too.

[Marcrc21193]

She is Christian. I expect her to be a virgin.

[Marcrc21193]

What is frustrating is that even Christian girls don't wait and are used goods too.

[darkpsycer]

Dumb her. Not for your benefit, but for hers. If you're so hung up in sexual history and only want to be with a girl to take her virginity, you don't deserve any of those girla

[darkpsycer]

*Dump her

[Marcrc21193]

I don't deserve used goods

[darkpsycer]

Fuck you're stupid prejudice. You're a fucking 18 year old. The changes of you finding a virgin who will actu want to loose it to you after finding out about your fetish for breaking hymens, is absolutely impossible. Do yourself a favour, take a cold shower to remove that dick from your head and let the blood for back to your brain and wake the fuck up

[Marcrc21193]

I'm not accepting used goods and leftovers if thats what you are saying. Im sick of that. I just dump them and let another weak guy accept their used goods. These non virgins can be some other weak guys problem. They shouldn't be my problem.

[darkpsycer]

I believe that no one is a bad person, they just make bad decisions. But you sir, are a certified CUNT!!!

[Marcrc21193]

Girls who lose their v card to some they are not still with are cunts. They are bad people. Girls who lose their v card to an asshole are cunts. They are bad people. Girls who give you leftovers and used goods are cunts. They are not giving you their best and they are the worst people.
Leftovers and used goods reap what they sow. Their past actions have consequences. Its sweet justice when non Virgins get used and treated bad by me or some other guy like me.

[darkpsycer]

Go kill yourself. A what if a girl was pressured into sex and had to escape, is she a bad person? What if a girl was raped, is she a bad person? What if the person she had sex with wasn't the person she thought he was, is she the worst person? You need to die, the world would be a better place without your misogynistic views and your sexist life. I hope you never get a girlfriend and you die alone, TODAY!!!

[Marcrc21193]

All my girlfriends slept with guys who were people she didn't thought he was. They are fucking stupid shits. And now these stupid shits are offering me used goods and asking me to love them. God damn.
What's even worse is my current girlfriend re dedicated to being a Christian after she slept with guy who turned out to be an asshole. Well guess what, offer me used goods and I will be a bigger asshole than the last guy. I've proven this 3 times before this girl.

[darkpsycer]

you dont deserve the love these girls are trying to give you

[Marcrc21193]

I don't deserve the used goods they are trying to give me.

[darkpsycer]

no you don't, because that's way to high up for you. You deserve to wake up every morning and have a dog shit in your face

[Marcrc21193]

Waking up every morning next to a non virgin is like dogshit on my face. Offering me used goods is like offering me scraps to eat. The cherry popper gets first dibs and I get the leftover scraps. Now you see why I just use non virgin girls and never love them.

[darkpsycer]

No, now I see that you're a shit faced retard with no hope. You're life will be filled with disappointment because you can't look past you're own misogynistic views to see the beauty of these girls. I hope you end up in jail and get your ass raped by a guy with 11"

[Marcrc21193]

I have hope as long as I have another non virgin to date. So far I've had 4 in 1.5 years. Now that's hope. More used bodies to pump and dump. The girls didn't save anything for me. So it's all about me and my revenge now. Revenge keeps you hungry and motivated.

[Wesley_5577]

Wow. What is wrong with you? Why the obsession over virginity? I'll never get it

[Marcrc21193]

I'm not first and not most important. She made an important decision with that guy. I wanted to be that important decision.

[Wesley_5577]

You are putting way too much on virginity, it doesn't matter. You need to look at how you view sexuality.

[Marcrc21193]

Either I'm first or nothing.

[Wesley_5577]

Yeah, you really should take a look at yourself. You have an unhealthy understanding of sexuality. Are you religious?

[Marcrc21193]

No. I'm just a guy who gets sloppy seconds.