He told me he got drunk at a party and ended up having sex with that same guy once but he regretted it and he told me he isn't attracted to him or any guys that he was just experimenting. Like I know 100% he isn't gay we have sex everyday he is so attracted to me he loves me to bits and so do I. I find it really hard to accept that he had sex with a guy. Like the part that upsets me is because he made me believe I was his first and that i was the first to give him oral and all that but I find out a year later that he already did all that with a guy 😣
how do I get over this? We had sex today and it didn't feel the same it didn't feel as special.
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Well this is because it's not the same as it was before.
I wouls start by accepting the fact that he lied to you and that has obviously hurt you. Any lie shakes trust and it's okay for this to bother you no matter what it was about. Things will go back to normal if and when your faith in him restores. It might just be about the trust, it might be that you have concerns about his sexuality, or it could be anything else. If you need to talk with him then you should, bottling these kinds of feelings up is seldom a good idea.
In any case I wish you all the very best of luck!