Should I be concerned if my boyfriend is hanging out with a girl alone? (Page 2)

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I trust my boyfriend but I couldn’t help but feel alarmed, I guess that would be the term, when he told me he was hanging out with a girl. He’s told me about her before and they’re just friends but he’s been hanging with her more often. He still spends a lot of his time with me but still.  I get... I don’t know jealous or worried.  I also dont don’t want to be that girl that doesn’t allow her boyfriend to have female friends 😅 lol that’s not okay.

Cursewords · Answer

Depends on a million things. How they met / know each other. How long they been friends etc. If you don't even agree to meet her you can't complain.

BrittBratt2416 · Answer

Yeah, that's a huge red flag if he's spending a lot of time with this girl a lone.

pr3ttybr0wn · Answer

thats not appropriate. dont be surprised if they mess around or if he leaves u for her

dragau4 · Answer

Well biologicaly speaking there's always something to worry about hence why no one likes it but generally not really if he spends a lot more time with you you should be fine and not worry

hahamariooo · Answer

Hey, it's okay to be jealous, you just have to be open with him about it.

pleasestopthis · Answer

I would be concerned. Specially is that girl doesn't allow her boyfriend to be with another girl by himself. Why should she be allowed to be alone with your boyfriend?

Anonymus2017 · Answer

Even if you trust him there will almost always be an underlying jealousy or concern. Because it's human nature.

But just talk to him in a way that you can dig to see what they are up to without being intrusive.

conanbdetective · Answer

Mark your territory and keep her close. If he told you about her, be wary of her; not him.

utterlyconfusedlol · Answer

no it shouldn't be concerning. if he's told you about her he's got nothing to hide and he probably has been friends with her way before you two met. definitely don't be the girl who says that he can't have female friends, nobody likes that girl

cnnrmclw · Answer

Sometimes our best friends just tend to be female! The fact that he's with her alone shouldn't change anything if she's truly just a friend.

Lovemycountryboy · Answer

Yea u should be worried because he can easily cheat

HateYourCellphone · Answer

Go with them. You will know if anything fishy is going on.

arshdeepz64 · Answer

You should also be concerned when your boyfriend talks to other girls LOL relationships now days have a lot of leading on and secrets

_bunny_ · Answer

If you trust him then you shouldn't worry too much to be honest

SarahsSummer · Answer

Why don’t you try to become friends with her? It may put your mind at ease.

foreveralone22 · Answer

I would be concerned and jealous and want him to stop hanging with that girl

SoJust · Answer

Yes of course you should be worried , if he is your boyfriend and else a girl together have he doesn't love you, his relationship with you is over

LuWe22 · Answer

No, no need to worry. It is just a friendship and it would be to much to ask to stop seeing her. Keep it cool and maybe you can ask if you can hang with them together

smashas · Answer

If it's all the time and they're hanging out at least every other day talk to her because he's a jerk. but if it's occasional it's okay

thenewgirlll · Answer

Well it depends, but if were you, i would be concerned

Anonymous · Answer

I'd be paranoid. I would let him have female friends, I would not let him hang out with them alone. Nope.

dansgotswagg · Answer

Honestly I don't think that's cool, and keep in mind I'm a little bit of a jealous guy.

rickbrown6032 · Answer

Only if you think there was something you know that both of them have in the past was a closeness that wasn't a friend

acetaminophen · Answer

It depends. A lot! Before that you (both) should be concerned on your relation, trust, friendship, care, trust...

adamski24 · Answer

No you shouldn't I have mostly female friends and that's all it is.

Loscabolover · Answer

Its all good. He is stimulated around her, but he know where his home is.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

If i had a girlfriend, i would in no way be hanging out with female friends.

Quidthonian · Answer

The thing is that you trust him. He told you about her. He is open with you. Continue to trust him, but monitor the situation.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

You should be concerned. Sexual tension can sparkle really quick between a man and a woman when alone.

Hastur225 · Answer

If you dont trust him enough to be around the opposite sex. Why are you with him?

sslv20 · Answer

be concerned and find out whas goin on. while being cool about it.

SolitarySolace · Answer

I’d be concerned if I had a girlfriend who Was hanging out alone with another guy so yes.

didigo182 · Answer

Yes. Unless he invite you to come with him, i don't see no point in he hangout with a girl alone. And vice-versa.

NickoN · Answer

hm, you should hang around with a guy, all alone, and make some sweet loving with him, just for the good measure

msg812 · Answer

yes, you should be concerned, if he often hangs out with her.

SullyB · Answer

Why don't you hang out with them to make sure no funny business occurs.

eatadic · Answer

yes. You should be concerned. They’re alone for a reason.

Anonymous · Answer

As long as his piss pump doesn't work you should be fine. But if it does then you have need for major concern.

Guanfei · Answer

Well no, unless you have real reasons to think he might cheat. But apparently he doesn't.

Ashutoshsamal · Answer

You should be concerned a bit... Don't have to worry if he doesn't hangout with her too much

OpinionatedBoii · Answer

Not necessarily. However, I think it would be better if you both were present when there was a friend of the opposite sex around.

arsoman · Answer

Even if they fuck which I am pretty sure they do, if they still say they are friends I think just let it be, he needs some relax too

Anonymous · Answer

Let him. I'm a guy who has a lot of female friends and I dumped my girl recently because she was too controlling about that.

Ankitrajaa · Answer

Yes u have to because sometime anything weird happens when a girl n boy are alone

Anonymous · Answer

If he is hanging out with her more and more than I would be concerned

Anonymous · Answer

Is this girl, prettier or more attractive then you?

ImMackFreeze · Answer

I mean, I would but trust in them

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hasrett · Answer

I would be somewhat concearned.

es20490446e · Answer

Hanging out in what context?

MrHungwell · Answer

I'm sure its platonic. Guys never cheat.

SimbaKOTK · Answer

Yeah, he's trying to fuck her.

clampfan101 · Answer

Doesn't sound like a need for much concern.

lilmissumshine · Answer

Um he can't invite you?

Dre_808 · Answer

What do they do when they hang out?

California24 · Answer

if the girl likes him, gotta watch out for snakes

AlexDelux · Answer

If it happens often than yes

Marinepilot · Answer

Yes you should be concerned.

boochie0 · Answer

I’ll just check and see if they are just friends

john76 · Answer

If he is playing with other girls you will know.

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